Saturday Dec 05, 2009

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So I was talking to Ryan again about how even though I promised him I would never submit a hopeful set, I still think about it a lot (despite how I look) And he told me that if it makes me happy he is ok with me doing it but he would never want to talk about it, see what I did, and he would pretend that it had never happened cause he just doesn't want to think about it. Would it be horribly wrong of me to take advantage of him saying I could? Or should I just push aside the fact that I want to do it so I can keep the peace? Am I selfish for even considering it?
cudnovati:
honestly i dont think you are selfish at all. I suppose you have wanted to do it for quite some time now, you can always shoot the set and decide later. its great to value his opinion, i guess doing it and not talking about its the fairest of options. Do what you feel its right. smile
rickroyal:
Probably depends on why you want to do it. Examine your genuine feelings for wanting to submit a set. Perhaps then you'll be able to express to him why this is so important to you.

But ultimately you have to live your own life. Years for now will you look back and wish that you'd done it? Or will it be something you'll giggle about and be glad you never did?

If he would want to pretend that it never happened, though, it would probably create some friction even if he says it's okay. Is whatever you'd get from submitting a set worth the friction?

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