No set rules for which path to take in one's life. Decisions are up to ourselves without a clear vision of which decision is the right decision. We're all trying to find our way to happiness, but it's difficult to tell which path will lead us there. Even with all the preparation and information available, we could still be travelling headlong towards heartache and suffering. I guess that's why I sometimes resist change. But without change we're lost and quickly rot into living corpses.
I promise I won't stalk you. Probably.