Okay, so, that's a new one.
Impromptu "underwear on ther outside" party at my place last night. No real reason, a friend of the missus suggested it because she wanted to come round for a few drinks. Nothing major, about 8 people, since we only organised it about 7pm.
One of them, let's call him Army Guy, got a fair bit of attention from the missus. It's not too uncommon, and I was cool with it.
About midnight or so, the missus pulled me aside and told me that her friend, who had shown up late, JC, wanted to sleep with me. My immeddiate thought was "cool, threesome". But apparently not. Despite having experimented in the girl on girl earlier in life, she's not into it. So the missus said to me that if I slept with her friend JC, who does she get to sleep with?
Later, she suggested that she would sleep with Army Guy, and I could sleep with her friend. I tried to bring it back to the threesome, but was told that wasn't going to happen. So I agreed. I suggested we could do the whole same-room sex thing, but she was non-comittal.
The missus moved things along, giving both JC and then army guy lap dances in the loungeroom, before changing into some lingerie and coming back to the loungeroom. In the meantime, JC bailed me up in the kitchen and asked me if I was going to sleep with her. I told her yes, and we made out a little.
We all kept drinking, and later, as I was coming back inside from having a cigarette, the missus told me I had better get to the bedroom. I did so.
JC came in and closed the door. I got naked and laid on the bed, and we started making out. Eventually, things progressed, although despite the girl being quite attractive, I had a little trouble getting started. Not a problem I've usually had, but since this was my first time without the missus at least being part of it in about 2 years, I was a little nervous. But the girl was very good about it, and we spent probably more time talking then actually having sex. But in the end she was satisfied, so we called it quits - I was too drunk to cum, which is a common problem for me.
But when we emerged, the missus and army guy hadn't keft the loungeroom. I talked to her, and nothing had happened - well, okay, I doubt very much that nothing happened, the missus wouldn't have suggested the whole screnario if she wasn't into army guy - but apparently no sex. Army guy left straight away, and the missus told me that she had been upset because I seemed so eager to sleep with JC.
Don't get me wrong, I had fun, but honeslty I got more out of the conversation thasn the sex. Now the missus wont talk about it except to say that it was her fault and she'll be fine - classic warning sign - but I really don't know how to approach the topic.
So I guess the next week or so is going to be a little awkward....
Impromptu "underwear on ther outside" party at my place last night. No real reason, a friend of the missus suggested it because she wanted to come round for a few drinks. Nothing major, about 8 people, since we only organised it about 7pm.
One of them, let's call him Army Guy, got a fair bit of attention from the missus. It's not too uncommon, and I was cool with it.
About midnight or so, the missus pulled me aside and told me that her friend, who had shown up late, JC, wanted to sleep with me. My immeddiate thought was "cool, threesome". But apparently not. Despite having experimented in the girl on girl earlier in life, she's not into it. So the missus said to me that if I slept with her friend JC, who does she get to sleep with?
Later, she suggested that she would sleep with Army Guy, and I could sleep with her friend. I tried to bring it back to the threesome, but was told that wasn't going to happen. So I agreed. I suggested we could do the whole same-room sex thing, but she was non-comittal.
The missus moved things along, giving both JC and then army guy lap dances in the loungeroom, before changing into some lingerie and coming back to the loungeroom. In the meantime, JC bailed me up in the kitchen and asked me if I was going to sleep with her. I told her yes, and we made out a little.
We all kept drinking, and later, as I was coming back inside from having a cigarette, the missus told me I had better get to the bedroom. I did so.
JC came in and closed the door. I got naked and laid on the bed, and we started making out. Eventually, things progressed, although despite the girl being quite attractive, I had a little trouble getting started. Not a problem I've usually had, but since this was my first time without the missus at least being part of it in about 2 years, I was a little nervous. But the girl was very good about it, and we spent probably more time talking then actually having sex. But in the end she was satisfied, so we called it quits - I was too drunk to cum, which is a common problem for me.
But when we emerged, the missus and army guy hadn't keft the loungeroom. I talked to her, and nothing had happened - well, okay, I doubt very much that nothing happened, the missus wouldn't have suggested the whole screnario if she wasn't into army guy - but apparently no sex. Army guy left straight away, and the missus told me that she had been upset because I seemed so eager to sleep with JC.
Don't get me wrong, I had fun, but honeslty I got more out of the conversation thasn the sex. Now the missus wont talk about it except to say that it was her fault and she'll be fine - classic warning sign - but I really don't know how to approach the topic.
So I guess the next week or so is going to be a little awkward....