So should i care that the guy that i am seeing thinks of me as second best in bed? I hardly dare to think that i am amazing or anything, but i still don't like hearing it. His number one was a girl he dated over 3 years ago. I think they were together for almost 2 years and they had sex almost everyday. He wanted to marry her. He didn't but only because she broke up with him first. I realistically know that there is no way i will have sex with some one every single day or even every other day for an extended period of time. Sure when you first get together you fuck like rabbits but what about after a year goes by and you both are busy with work and school and sometimes just want to sleep. I am not saying i would go for more than a couple days but really should i be upset by something i know isn't normal? Life happens and believe it or not sex is not the entirety of life. Perhaps the reason i think this is because my last long term relationship i had a really shitty sex life. It wasn't me in that relationship, it was him, no question about it. But now in this one i think it is me that is the problem. The really fucked up thing is i asked him if i was his best. So i guess it is my own fault really. I am old enough to know not to ask questions that you don't need to know the answer to. But yet i still do it and don't see myself changing anytime soon.
zetaalfaorion:
I know what you mean...I had a gf that would tell me about some of the experiences she had in the past, which is really stupid on her part. If you want to end a relationship all you got to do is talk about what you did with other people, i don't really undestand why people want to do that. Once they tell you anything about the past it really sinks in and the relationship won't be the same after that.