Let us say that you've been really great friends with this girl for 3 going on 4 years. Best friends. So you decide to move in together. Sounds good. You move in and everything's alright for about 3 weeks. Then suddenly you've been bumped to roommate status, no longer are a friend and you're completely ignored, given dirty looks all the time and your boyfriend is now public enemy #1.
WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!?!?!?!
My roommate and supposed friend Amanda is being a total twat and has stabbed me in the back by doing all of this. I'm not a friend anymore it would seem. I just live and work with her. She hates my boyfriend, George, now, which is fuckin' weird because they got along famously before we moved in. Now all the sudden she hates him and gives him the meanest looks ever. Ontop of all that I'm ignored half the time-she doesn't talk to me at all unless she's upset at something I have or haven't done. I clean, I wash dishes, I buy groceries, pay rent and bills, keep things tidey, vaccuum the gaddamn rug for chrissakes!!!!!!!!! What did I do to deserve this treatment???? I am nothing but curteous and respectful and I'm treated like shit. I don't understand what happened to her.
Another thing, I let George cut himself some keys so that he had the same freedom in the apartment as he did in my old house. Amanda freaked out and said that it was against the lease aggreement (which it is) and then went on about being worried about people breaking in or someone finding out, or if the place burns down, what if we get evicted because of it - a whole lotta bullshit. I gave in a took the keys back - which neither George nor I were all too happy about - I didn't know what to do or say. I was dumbfounded. We had agreed before we moved in that he could have keys. What the hell happened???
It would seem that I've extricated myself from one horrible situation and thrown myself into another one. Why didn't I see this coming? Can anyone tell me what to do? Perhaps explian maybe what's gone on? I'm so lost and confused. Did I do something?
~T
WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!?!?!?!
My roommate and supposed friend Amanda is being a total twat and has stabbed me in the back by doing all of this. I'm not a friend anymore it would seem. I just live and work with her. She hates my boyfriend, George, now, which is fuckin' weird because they got along famously before we moved in. Now all the sudden she hates him and gives him the meanest looks ever. Ontop of all that I'm ignored half the time-she doesn't talk to me at all unless she's upset at something I have or haven't done. I clean, I wash dishes, I buy groceries, pay rent and bills, keep things tidey, vaccuum the gaddamn rug for chrissakes!!!!!!!!! What did I do to deserve this treatment???? I am nothing but curteous and respectful and I'm treated like shit. I don't understand what happened to her.
Another thing, I let George cut himself some keys so that he had the same freedom in the apartment as he did in my old house. Amanda freaked out and said that it was against the lease aggreement (which it is) and then went on about being worried about people breaking in or someone finding out, or if the place burns down, what if we get evicted because of it - a whole lotta bullshit. I gave in a took the keys back - which neither George nor I were all too happy about - I didn't know what to do or say. I was dumbfounded. We had agreed before we moved in that he could have keys. What the hell happened???
It would seem that I've extricated myself from one horrible situation and thrown myself into another one. Why didn't I see this coming? Can anyone tell me what to do? Perhaps explian maybe what's gone on? I'm so lost and confused. Did I do something?
~T
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rustgiraffe:
i kinda had the same thing happen when i had to be around my best friend all the time. we had been friends for about 7 years, gone through everything together. but when we started cosmetology school together, she turned into a total bitch. some people are just like that. to this day, we rarely talk. i love her like a sister, but i get so tired of her petty shit sometimes too.
kingofnopants:
i hate when shit like that happens. but i've personally had no bad experiences living with my friends, so i can't give you any advice on that.