schoolgirl

Part of being perfect is embracing yourself as a whole. Be exactly what you are. I don't like the sense of accepting your flaws because I don't believe that we are flawed. I have bad days, but they aren't really bad in any definition of the word. They are just how they are. This is not a mistake. Things happen as events that are cause and effect. We remember bad things too much more than good things.

To feel a good sense of balance, accept and learn from the good things that "happen" to you the same way as the bad. we tend to remember the bad and overshadow the good like it never happened. Great, something good happened. Next. Why is that? We definitely focus and lament that "mistakes" are made and try to learn from them to prevent that from happening again. Why not view a good thing the same way? Focus, learn and remember how that thing turned out well for next time rather than dismiss it. Good things are not a fluke because they happen with the same cause and effect rule as bad things. Don't miss out on either though, both are equally important to your life. Love them.

So I am perfect. I let myself have bad moods. I let myself have happy moods. My mind and body and soul need them. I actually feel abnormal when I deny myself the emotion that I am going to feel. face it. it is there and it is you. let yourself be you. It is unhealthy and unfair to deny that. Feel badly for as long as you need. Feel elated for as much as you can get.

I am perfect because I am exactly how I am. I have ten toes, curvy boobs, and a witchy nose. If I had ten crooked toes, flat boobs, and a straight nose, I'd be perfect too. Whatever you are in your entirety is what you are and exactly that. There is no such thing as accepting a flawed body. Just as you are, and nothing more or less is perfect. You can't be perfect if you just had that one thing that you are missing. you can't be perfect if you are jealous of someone else's perfection. Popeye said it best, "I yam what I yam." Popeye is perfect.

Don't "work with what you got" by any means. That sounds so negative. Be what you got and never see yourself short. I know exactly who I am and what I am all about. It feels good to be in my skin. "Be yourself?" what the hell does that mean? People say that all the time and have no clue.

I am perfect and so are you. Just deal, alright?

This feel good message is brought to you by the letter S and the number 6 and the SG member schoolgirl who loves you very much.

xoxoxoxo,
$choolgirl