So this is just a big ramble that i feel is said all too often but isn't seen enough. After seeing the comments people post on my pictures, as well as the pictures posted on so many of my absolute favorite girls, including most of the suicidegirls social outlets, i feel i need to just say it right here and now...
Listen, when i first started modeling I learned very early on that people were going to judge me based on their own perception of the pictures they see of me.
I won't, and don't, deny that i take provocative photos. Or "provocative" in this day and age (where being seen in your bra and underwear is still considered trashy, whereas being seen in a bathing suit is not).
I have boobs and, low and behold, the same parts that "most" woman are born with. And that's just it. I'm made the way i'm made and i'm a fucking person.
I'm not an idiot, i know half of the people that follow me on social media are following me because some other "instababe" site posted one of my more scantly clad images. Which is more than likely one of the rare macro boob shots that has been taken out of a set of other, "less-boobfied" photos, So i know that most of them are requesting to follow me and strictly thinking they are going to see me nude or hoping my feed will be 90% half naked images that they can jack off to, rather than the normal "this is my boring life" set list of selfies and food (i lose over 100-200 followers a week based on this)....
Regardless of whether or not that were the case, i'm still a fucking person.
Nothing a model, whom is in this or any other CAREER, posts gives anybody a reason to disrespect them.
Yes, I, and every other model i've met understands that the media views this particular field of work to be "over sexualized", "Sexually driven" "Just a dick tease." But REALITY CHECK; about 85% of women who are Alternative, or Nude models, don't model for anyone BUT THEMSELVES. We didn't wake up one day and think "i want attention from dudes, so i'm going to let them see me in a personal way"
Because it's not all about pleasing guys, it's about being pleased by what we see in ourselves. Us being attractive is an added bonus, and you should be absolutely honored that we are willing to share ourselves in the best light possible to you. We don't give a shit if you think we're too fat or don't have enough tattoos or are probably trash or any of the other absurd comments you make on social media, you know why?
BECAUSE WE ARE A FUCKING PERSON. Not a doll, not your property, not your gift, we are a fucking RIGHT.
What we chose to do does not define who we are. So go follow and unfollow because we don't have pussy pictures to supply you every time you're horny.
Before you trash any girl that has cleavage or an ass, take a look in the mirror and tell yourself "My opinion about anyone other than myself doesn't mean shit to anyone else"
You can't change anyone's mind other than your own, and nobody gives a swimming, jogging, hiking or FLYING FUCK about whether you like them or not. We model for US, not for YOU. And you can't define us.
This isn't the 40's where woman were meant to be one certain way.
I have met so many absolutely genuine and beautiful woman inside and OUT from being a hopeful on here, and nobody deserves to be talked down to or treated with disrespect because you don't agree with the way they feel comfortable. If a girl you follow or "girls" in the case of following the SG instagram is confident enough sharing herself with you, then you better be fucking honored. You say one thing and then go on and get upset when the tables are turned on you.
We are all human, we are all made beautiful regardless of modifications or beauty marks or different skin, hair or eye color, you know why? Because we are all fucking people.
We are who we are, not because you want us to be, but because WE ARE A FUCKING HUMAN BEING. Stop treating other people like garbage because you have no respect, stop wasting your breath and move on to the rest of your news feed pictures that you don't have a problem with, stop trying to make BEAUTIFUL, CONFIDENT woman feel bad about who they are when it's their life and their decisions. Grow up, because we are ALL human from the beginning to the end.
