I'm so sorry!! I stopped by here to wish you a happy birthday, but I know that this will likely overshadow that. Two of my cats were born in 1989 (not definite, but I was told that when I adopted them in 1991), and I always dread the possibility of losing them. My childhood cat Misty died last year at nearly 19, and I have lost other cats at younger ages. I know it's extremely hard. For what it's worth, I hope that things pick up for you and that you can cherish your memories of her.
I just checked out her pic in your LJ....she was beautiful. You should post it here too.
I just checked out her pic in your LJ....she was beautiful. You should post it here too.
Happy Birthday