When gay people become open about their sexuality they call it "coming out"... well I just came out in a way...I'm finally identifying myself as polyamorous after years of feeling like something is missing. Not that I'm dating more than one person right now but that's how I identify myself when speaking to women .
I thought it was hard finding women that are interested in me before! Everyone feels so threatened by the idea that I can care for more than one person at a time. It's always seemed so possessive to me. I want everyone I feel close to to feel like a relationship. Men, women, whatever. Why set a boundary that only limits your ability to love?
I met a nice girl who's accepted it and that alone makes her supremely awesome in my book. She lives about an hour from me so I only get to see her once a week due to work constraints but it's nice to feel understood even if it's in a small way.
I thought it was hard finding women that are interested in me before! Everyone feels so threatened by the idea that I can care for more than one person at a time. It's always seemed so possessive to me. I want everyone I feel close to to feel like a relationship. Men, women, whatever. Why set a boundary that only limits your ability to love?
I met a nice girl who's accepted it and that alone makes her supremely awesome in my book. She lives about an hour from me so I only get to see her once a week due to work constraints but it's nice to feel understood even if it's in a small way.
dede:
I find that lifestyle very interesting. I think it would be kind of nice to live happily with a few other women, your man and possible children. It would be a home filled with so much love. The idea of having other women to love as well as a husband appeals to me. Im sure there are plenty of women that feel like that, and now that you are being open about it, you will find them.
salo120:
Thank you. But I'm not sure I agree about finding women.