Working on my idea for my personal banner for Tattoo Voodoo. Im either going to do a chick with one cyborg eye, or a one eyed one horned flying purple people eater..... still debating. I may have my first appointment lined up. Im going to draw up ad upper arm piece for my friend of a zombie hand holding a severed chick's head. Thinking it... Read More
Starting yesterday, there is a new and improved Jessie walking around. With the weight of these past few years lifting from my shoulders, I feel reborn as a different person. Dont get me wrong, im still essentially the same chick. Ive just decided i will no longer be quite so hard on myself about my artistic skills, or my looks. I feel a new edge... Read More
First day off in 10 days! Busy day planed. Going to see my sister out in Covington and play with her new puppy Also going to see my dad for the first time in 6 months. Not going to visit very long, because im going to try to get back to go workout with the roomies. After that, i may start painting my dining room.... Read More
So i stayed at work late last night and chatted with a friend for a couple hours. The friend is a guy from my car club, and is a good listener for me at this time in my life. My husband and I are still living together for a bit longer till i guess he figures out where to go. So I get home last... Read More
tip #1 for continued living arrangement with an ex: make sure you log out of everything, all the time, even if it's not a shared computer. trust me. so much bullshit will be avoided that way
quick blog before i go to sleep. One more day of work to finish up my 10 days stretch of extremely long days. Made good money, but glad i get to be off Tuesday. Already have the day pretty full of other stuff i have to get done, but anything besides work is going to be relaxing. Down 18 lbs. Wore a pair of jeans... Read More
So i think today is the best day ive had in a long time. I havnt been sad or upset all day, and i feel like i finally have a plan for the next portion of my life. Ive gotten a lawyer who is a friend of a friend to start doing the paperwork for my divorce. Ive decided to not go back to school... Read More
Things are going pretty ok so far in the divorce process. I have a friend of a friend who is a divorce lawyer sending me all the paperwork to complete and bring back to him and he'll take care of all that part for me for a very low fee. I feel much better letting someone who knows what they're doing handle that part. Still... Read More
This coming Friday will be the end of month 1 of operation Jessie slim down, and so far ive lost 15lbs. Going to try to loose 15 more by the time i head up to Go Exposed in Indianapolis next month.
Im actually going to go out for a bit when i get off work tonight. YAY!!!!
Got my own bank account today. Went with the same bank my mortgage is at, so hopefully that will be in my favor whenever we decide to try to get the house in just my name. As for the moment things are going well. He's looking into getting a job in Chicago and moving back to his hometown. We're still both staying at the house... Read More
yeah, its like we're good friends now. only thing thats different is no more kissing, and not saying i love you. for now we're even sleeping in the same bed, just with different quilts haha. We can share a bed for a little while and see if he gets a job offer in chicago, or we get the paper work finalized. Im sure as hell not sleeping on the couch !
So things are going smoothly with the divorce planning so far. We are actually agreeing and getting along better than we have in a long time since we made this decision. Plan as of now is to try to find out tomorrow if there is any way i can just assume the mortgage so his name can be taken off and i can keep the... Read More