Ok.. so here's what's been going on with me...
I've been here in San Diego for a year... and I love this place, it's paradise. I also like my company alot, but i'mhaving some issues with both...
My company is run by idiots who are only concerned with the bottom line and have a "churn-and-burn" attitude towards the staff.
I don't really see much future with this company, and i'm easily $25-$40 thousand dollars underpaid... There isn't much for me at this office.
I love this town and it's scene's.. but I have never met more flakey people in my life than those here in Southern California. meaningful relationships aren't really an option (I don't mean romantic)
If I were a 23-26 year old party animal, I could see living below my value and having superfiscial friends and partying/surfing all the time...
so...... do i stay or do I go? Moving back to NY will be a struggle.. financially especially. BUT NY is my roots, my family and my friends and career possibilities...
There is also, sterss... winter, humidity, looooooooong hours, crime, grime and high costs...
not sure if I'm just going through a negativity phase... and should just ride it out, or work toward a move back home..
i of course wouldn't move back with some kind of job.. I'm actually trying to see if I can get my company to move me back so i can be assured work..and search for that better paying job.
If I move back, i can see three rip up NYC again.... um d00d.. you'll have to start giving me more than 2 hours notice.. k??
your opinions are greatly appreciated...
I've been here in San Diego for a year... and I love this place, it's paradise. I also like my company alot, but i'mhaving some issues with both...
My company is run by idiots who are only concerned with the bottom line and have a "churn-and-burn" attitude towards the staff.
I don't really see much future with this company, and i'm easily $25-$40 thousand dollars underpaid... There isn't much for me at this office.
I love this town and it's scene's.. but I have never met more flakey people in my life than those here in Southern California. meaningful relationships aren't really an option (I don't mean romantic)
If I were a 23-26 year old party animal, I could see living below my value and having superfiscial friends and partying/surfing all the time...
so...... do i stay or do I go? Moving back to NY will be a struggle.. financially especially. BUT NY is my roots, my family and my friends and career possibilities...
There is also, sterss... winter, humidity, looooooooong hours, crime, grime and high costs...
not sure if I'm just going through a negativity phase... and should just ride it out, or work toward a move back home..
i of course wouldn't move back with some kind of job.. I'm actually trying to see if I can get my company to move me back so i can be assured work..and search for that better paying job.
If I move back, i can see three rip up NYC again.... um d00d.. you'll have to start giving me more than 2 hours notice.. k??
your opinions are greatly appreciated...