Dammit....Why is it that two of my friends, namely one being my BEST freind, have to suffer simultaneously....there is nothing I can do for these guys, and I feel so awful for it....fuck...I really hate to see shit happen to good people....I know loss is a fact of life. Just as we gain, we lose, it's the only way to complete the circle. But WHY, why does it have to hurt so bad.... 
gersguy:
you are the kind of person that is there for them....so that is great. just let time heal it and be there.
gersguy:
Actually Saturday I will be leaving from Baltimore......so we will meet there. Sorry.