Women can be so FUCKING GULLIBLE sometimes
I swear this ex of mine needs an actual crowbar to the head to fix whatever the fuck makes her say some of the shit she says. Low self esteem, guys, it's a fucking killer. Some guy clearly uses her, and what does she come out with? "I probably wasn't good enough, it was my fault". ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!! So a guy calls you up, gives you all this talk about how he wants to be with you, fucks you, and goes radio silent. AND YOU BLAME YOURSELF?! I could honestly fly back home just to slap some fucking sense into her.
This is what angers me about douchebags who just use women. They totally don't understand that these are human beings, regular people and with low self esteem? It literally fucks them up. For the douchebag, it's just a cheap fuck, who cares, right? But then the girl is fucking destroying herself inside. She's becoming SO FUCKED in the head that she's willing to DEFEND this CUNT after he uses her, BLAMING HERSELF for the reason it never turned into a relationship. I'm so fucking furious I could literally murder someone.

This is what angers me about douchebags who just use women. They totally don't understand that these are human beings, regular people and with low self esteem? It literally fucks them up. For the douchebag, it's just a cheap fuck, who cares, right? But then the girl is fucking destroying herself inside. She's becoming SO FUCKED in the head that she's willing to DEFEND this CUNT after he uses her, BLAMING HERSELF for the reason it never turned into a relationship. I'm so fucking furious I could literally murder someone.

romany:
These types of men make me sick, they do it to anyone they can. I'm sorry your ex has such low self-esteem, I know her pain all too well, but normally could tell the difference between a fuck and a relationship. There's no real way to fix low self-esteem either, there is no cure. I've had problems with it my entire life and have yet to figure out how to make it go a way, it's like post-traumatic stress disorder, it's just always there...
yasha:
Luckily I'm too shy to let anyone close to me like that and I admit I usually lable all men as douchbags, but I can still tell the difference between gentlemen and assholes. I used to be that gullible, but I was too young to be getting any farther then first base. Personally I suffer from low self esteem and I try to help others in the same boat as me, but sometimes they choose to just envelope themselves in thief own self loathing.... It's stupid.