Okay so I met this girl on line about a year and a half ago. We went out on a couple of dates. The first one was a coffee date that wound up being seven and a half hours of us talking and getting to know each other a bit. And I'm not exaggerating when I say I've never talked to anyone for that length of consecutive time; not family or friends, not even during all night gaming. :-P The second was only about an hour and a half of us walking around a museum talking, after which she kissed me. (awesome for me.) :-D ha ha... Then we spent a year and a half just texting and.. sexting back and forth, trying to find some time to get together, but she had a really busy year/ and a half. (too much to go into on this blog.) In that time though we opened up to each other; more than either of us have (me for sure.) and we have a connection. Finally after a year and a half of not getting to see each other in person we actually had our third date. And (admission time.) I am now no longer a virgin. It was really amazing and besides the actually act, we were all over each other. Now comes the advice request; or rather I'm looking for some incite/ opinions. Would this be considered a relationship? How might I tell if she thinks of it as that? Or are three dates not enough time for something more than just mutual attraction to grow? For the record I'm totally on board if it is more. In fact I read an article that said men (on average) fall in love after the third date. (women on average the sixteenth.) and lack of experience aside, I think I might be falling for her. I know I could just bring it up and ask her how she feels, I just don't want her to think I'm pushing for anything more than what she can give. (pretty sure that'd push her away.) and I really don't want to push away the only woman that thinks I'm hot. ;-P Any way thanks for reading. And I look forward to reading your thoughts.
cheers
Ron. :-D
