*sigh* I have a headache. It started at work and got worse and worse. I don't have anything normal to take for it so I took another Vicodin. It helps a little.
So after my initial giddyness about hearing my ex wants to get back together with me my brain kicked in. It does that sometimes...not normally when I need or want it to.
I wondered if she has even mentioned that she wants, and has wanted, to get back together with me to the guys she's seeing.
I asked her today and she hasn't talked to him or mentioned it at all. So...she's really setting him up to get his heart broken too.
Now this is a bad sign all around. I know why she hasn't mentioned it but I don't support the reason or the fact that she hasn't spoken to him.
I'm going to talk to her about the whole thing and I'm sure this will hurt our chances of getting back together...but it's the right thing to do. For her...him...and me.
I wish I didn't care for his feelings but I do. It's more of a respect thing.
And even though this whole thing stinks of trouble and problems...I still want her back.
I gotta go wrangle the squirrle running around in my place and finish cooking dinner.
I hope everyone is doing well. Have a Holly Jolly Christmas.
If anyone needs anything let me know. I will try to help if I can.
Take care.
Remember- "The moment one attempts to become sensible about love, on becomes incapable of love."- Unknown
So after my initial giddyness about hearing my ex wants to get back together with me my brain kicked in. It does that sometimes...not normally when I need or want it to.
I wondered if she has even mentioned that she wants, and has wanted, to get back together with me to the guys she's seeing.
I asked her today and she hasn't talked to him or mentioned it at all. So...she's really setting him up to get his heart broken too.
Now this is a bad sign all around. I know why she hasn't mentioned it but I don't support the reason or the fact that she hasn't spoken to him.
I'm going to talk to her about the whole thing and I'm sure this will hurt our chances of getting back together...but it's the right thing to do. For her...him...and me.
I wish I didn't care for his feelings but I do. It's more of a respect thing.
And even though this whole thing stinks of trouble and problems...I still want her back.
I gotta go wrangle the squirrle running around in my place and finish cooking dinner.
I hope everyone is doing well. Have a Holly Jolly Christmas.
If anyone needs anything let me know. I will try to help if I can.
Take care.
Remember- "The moment one attempts to become sensible about love, on becomes incapable of love."- Unknown
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My ex actually visited me today as well. Im still very much in love with her and she is with me too. But she has a whole other life now with her affair guy. So I think in my situation the best thing for me to do is step back and remember why we are in the possition we are in. Why is she my EX? Do I really want someone who could cause so much hurt and lieing in my life. Wether or not I love her doesnt matter, it what I have if I accept her back into my life.
Maybe you should consider the same. No matter how you feel, your taking a woman back that is capable of doing it again to this "other" guy. Why would she stop there if she decided to leave you?
Either way though I wish you the best of luck with it all. We have some hard lessons of love in our lifespan and it never seems to get easier. But really, good luck with it.
And Merry Happy whatever you celebrate, and hope Santa brings you some goodies....