Login
Forgot Password?

OR

Login with Google Login with Twitter Login with Facebook
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • SuicideGirls
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
Vital Stats

rictor66

Miami, FL

Member Since 2009

Followers 65 Following 90

  • Everything
  • Photos
  • Video
  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • From Others

Sunday Jan 24, 2010

Jan 23, 2010
0
  • Facebook
  • Tweet
  • Email
For those of you who have never been though it, being in a band is like a relationship, but with a LOT more people's feelings to take into account. And drunkedness doesn't help.

O.P.S. was her name, and we had some good times. But her bass player got a little too much for me to handle, so we split. We stayed great friends. I've even filled in some shows when she was short a guitar player. They found a stable guitar player soon enough, and the other guitarist left. They found another one. The guitarists had to learn some difficult parts left behind by their predecessors, and tonight was their first big show. One of the guitarists, botched up a part after kind of being forced to learn it because the new guy wasn't that good a player. He fucked up, who cares, right? It's a punk show. Well someone did care, it was the bass player/mouthpiece of the band. After the show, I saw the bass player, my friend, berate the guitarist, also my friend. It really bummed me out. I spoke with the guitarist, telling him to avoid a situation that would bring him grief, becase apparently this has been happening for a while. Sucks. The guitarist is also my drummer in M-66, and I don't want to EVER see him as bummed out as he looked after that dumb-ass argument he had with the bass player. It really fucked me up and also reminded me of why I left that band. I just don't want to have another person go through that, because by far, that was the WORST break-up I ever had; worse than any relationship I've had. Period.

I don't want to be a homewrecker so to speak, but I don't want my friend to be surrounded by bullshit like that either. input? comments? I'd appreciate it.

More Blogs

  • 09.29.10
    0

    Wednesday Sep 29, 2010

    Well, back to my little corner of the internet. Hope everyone is wel…
  • 08.18.10
    2

    Thursday Aug 19, 2010

    She lied. Fucking bitch.
  • 08.10.10
    0

    Tuesday Aug 10, 2010

    Breaking up is even harder when you have the same friends. Some draw …
  • 08.02.10
    0

    Tuesday Aug 03, 2010

    So... Don't mean to be a Negative Nancy, but my GF broke up with m…
  • 07.14.10
    2

    Thursday Jul 15, 2010

    Reasons she will last: we like the same bands She likes to do nothi…
  • 02.06.10
    0

    Saturday Feb 06, 2010

    I don't fucking get it. Why don't women just express them selves rig…
  • 01.23.10
    0

    Sunday Jan 24, 2010

    For those of you who have never been though it, being in a band is li…
  • 01.07.10
    5

    Friday Jan 08, 2010

    so here's the deal. It's mine & my Girldfriend's 1 year anniversary …
  • 01.04.10
    2

    Monday Jan 04, 2010

    I watched (500) days of Summer with my Chica...finally. A great flic…
  • 12.31.09
    0

    Thursday Dec 31, 2009

    Sing along time, kids: Gorilla Biscuits Start Today Yesterd…

We at SuicideGirls have been celebrating alternative pin-up girls for:

23
years
10
months
7
days
  • 5,509,826 fans
  • 41,393 fans
  • 10,327,617 followers
  • 4,598 SuicideGirls
  • 1,116,465 followers
  • 14,938,177 photos
  • 321,315 followers
  • 61,438,131 comments
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
  • Help
  • About
  • Press
  • LIVE

Legal/Tos | DMCA | Privacy Policy | 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement | Contact Us | Vendo Payment Support
©SuicideGirls 2001-2025

Press enter to search
Fast Hi-res

Click here to join & see it all...

Crop your photo