Sloane turned me on to this site (which she got through Elisabeth who got it through India). I challenge you all to TAKE MY QUIZ. Let's see how well you really know me. No cheating, now.
Yeah, she does realize where she went wrong in this situation (even though as you stated - it's not her fault, of course).
I actually talked to her before she went out that night, and she told me she was getting together with a female friend of his. My disdain was obvious, but, you know, she's an adult and she thought it'd be okay, so I didn't give her too much shit for it.
I think she should try one more time to make it absolutely clear that in no uncertain terms is he to contact her or try to find her, and if he disrepects her wishes yet again, THEN get the police involved.
If she went to the cops now, it'd just look like silly girl drama. Even though what he did was totally wrong, *technically* speaking, she didn't say no. It'd never hold up in court.
Well, that girl she was with was hardly a "friend." She didn't know her very well. And she only knew her through stalker. Wouldn't have been my first choice for a night of the town, but whatever.
And that girl was too drunk, also, so she had had to get a ride home from stalker as well. He must've taken that girl first.
Anyway, needless to say, I don't think she'll be hanging out with her anymore.
I actually talked to her before she went out that night, and she told me she was getting together with a female friend of his. My disdain was obvious, but, you know, she's an adult and she thought it'd be okay, so I didn't give her too much shit for it.
I think she should try one more time to make it absolutely clear that in no uncertain terms is he to contact her or try to find her, and if he disrepects her wishes yet again, THEN get the police involved.
If she went to the cops now, it'd just look like silly girl drama. Even though what he did was totally wrong, *technically* speaking, she didn't say no. It'd never hold up in court.
[Edited on Jan 13, 2005 12:48PM]
And that girl was too drunk, also, so she had had to get a ride home from stalker as well. He must've taken that girl first.
Anyway, needless to say, I don't think she'll be hanging out with her anymore.