About black, people, and fake smiles.

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So, this photo was taken yesterday, when I went shopping with my kid. Just wanted to post a photo of me in my everyday styling/look. And Doc Martens on my feet. This coat is only thing that I have that is not black. I really don't remember when was the last time I bought something that is not black. My friend tells me that I look like WW2 experiment gone wrong. :) I get really pised off when people I know or I dont know- but there is weird need that people in my country have, that they just came to you in the middle of the street or something- and they MUST tell you your opinion of what they think about your clothes/makeup/or something like that, and they esspeciali like to give you unneeded advices about how to take care of your child, if they see you walking with the baby. I hate that. I mean really, do you REALLY think that I give a shit what do you think about me, or that I will take your advice about taking care of MY OWN toddler. I really don't understand why people do that. I hate when unknown people just walk in my personal space. It gives me creeps and I just became very nervous and I want to slap 'em with my bag or let my toddler bite him or her. I'm really not unfriendly person, or nice person, I just won't take shit from people who see me for the first time and have need to shit on me because I'm different. And wear only black. This is my list of why black is better than other colours

WHY IS BLACK BETTER COLOUR:
1.It makes you slimmer
2. It cant end up coloured- when you put your loundry to wash it often gets colored if there is mixed many colors-well, no problem with black there!
3. When I go buy clothes, I just go there where is something black and I don't have to watch out what colour or design will I pick-black goes with everything!
4. black is good with unwanted stains- I'm sooooo clumsy and at least once a day i spill something, or get myself dirty when I cook-everything goes off of black.
5. EVERYBODY LOOKS SLIMMER IN BLACK. ENOUGH.
Oh, and I often get question-why don't you smile more on photos. Well, because I don't like fake smiles. I will smile if something is funny, Or if I'm happy. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't sad on photo up, I was just normal. Nobody walks with fake smile all day. But, maybe I should smile more on photos, just that everybody don't think I'm some kind of grumpy ass lady. Or that children don't get scared of me when they see me. ( I like children more than adults.)
So, I needed to get this few things of my chest. :)
p.s. I'm sorry on my english, I'm better talker than writter.
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jezzied:
The whole thing about handing out random parenting advice to complete strangers is something I have never really understood. Britain seems to be really bad for that for some reason, but then the country has an odd attitude to children in public in general. The three hour journey to London when my eldest was a 'lively' toddler was probably the low point of our parenting experience. Got a lot of advice from strangers that day!
reginablack:
@JEZZIED: I've lived in London for about 6 months (I didn't have kid then) so I haven't noticed such things. But, deffinetly I just can't understand the one's need to put upon their opinion about what you do with your own kid. Even irrational when advice come of a total stranger.

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