Here and Now...
Fall seems to have come early... I'm O.K. with that... I'm and Industrial/goth kid, who works in dark theatres. Summer was never my forte.
My Brother ( Who's sadly turned out to be the kind of lying, cheating, asshole Douche-bag that I call other guys who score innocent, young, multiple women and leave them, fucked up in their wake ) is prepping to move to Germany to meet up with his new, younger lover girl. While he is trying to work my parents for money to pay for divorcing my Sister In Law.
Thankfully, my conservative, proper parents who love my Sister in Law aren't helping one bit. they're staying completely out of it.
I've been in compassion mode all summer with my Sister in law, who has been a part of my family for about 12 years. She's Asian and is in super blame herself mode. Her parents aren't helping on bit as well. So, I sense that I'm the only close caregiver in this situation. As to that I said, " look, once my Brother's gone I'll pay you up front for the parking space. And you should save that money for a trip or some counseling." And I hope when he's gone she gets a roommate to share the flat, and gets on with her life.
As my bother is bailing - ( before paying me back about a car repair I had to do to my car. Which he caused out of not listening to me in the first place. ) But , found out that I offered to pay from here on out for the free parking spot, at my soon to be sister's place. A parking spot that I've had for the last few years for free at, what was also his place. ( We dealed a right to him using my car when needed - I even put him on the insurance papers. ) My sister in law doesn't drive. So, she deserves to get some compensation for me using the parking space after he's gone.
Really, I offered the same deal to my Brother three years ago and he opted to have free rights to borrow the car barring any accidental repair - and then blew the timing belt. Causing a 600.00 dollar repair to the engine which I payed for. Promised me tires in return and never delivered. And now, my newly Douch-bag brother is all livid and angry at me that I'm going to help my sister in law out financially after he leaves for Europe.
Real relatives can be such assholes.... I like the choice relatives better.
Fall seems to have come early... I'm O.K. with that... I'm and Industrial/goth kid, who works in dark theatres. Summer was never my forte.
My Brother ( Who's sadly turned out to be the kind of lying, cheating, asshole Douche-bag that I call other guys who score innocent, young, multiple women and leave them, fucked up in their wake ) is prepping to move to Germany to meet up with his new, younger lover girl. While he is trying to work my parents for money to pay for divorcing my Sister In Law.
Thankfully, my conservative, proper parents who love my Sister in Law aren't helping one bit. they're staying completely out of it.
I've been in compassion mode all summer with my Sister in law, who has been a part of my family for about 12 years. She's Asian and is in super blame herself mode. Her parents aren't helping on bit as well. So, I sense that I'm the only close caregiver in this situation. As to that I said, " look, once my Brother's gone I'll pay you up front for the parking space. And you should save that money for a trip or some counseling." And I hope when he's gone she gets a roommate to share the flat, and gets on with her life.
As my bother is bailing - ( before paying me back about a car repair I had to do to my car. Which he caused out of not listening to me in the first place. ) But , found out that I offered to pay from here on out for the free parking spot, at my soon to be sister's place. A parking spot that I've had for the last few years for free at, what was also his place. ( We dealed a right to him using my car when needed - I even put him on the insurance papers. ) My sister in law doesn't drive. So, she deserves to get some compensation for me using the parking space after he's gone.
Really, I offered the same deal to my Brother three years ago and he opted to have free rights to borrow the car barring any accidental repair - and then blew the timing belt. Causing a 600.00 dollar repair to the engine which I payed for. Promised me tires in return and never delivered. And now, my newly Douch-bag brother is all livid and angry at me that I'm going to help my sister in law out financially after he leaves for Europe.
Real relatives can be such assholes.... I like the choice relatives better.
tab00:
Yeah...i sort of dig on the side of your soon to be ex-sister-in-law. Was once in the same position as her...when ya divorce it's like losing a second family and everything else...hope to never re-live that nightmare ever again. Your parents seem smart.
bedwelld:
Siblings can be very frustrating to deal with. I hired my younger sister thinking I could help mold her into someone that society would be proud of. Wrong, I had to fire her after a couple months.