Ever get the feeling you've been cheated? 
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subtlevixen:
Yes all the time -- especially when someone tells me they are a certain way -- but really they are not that way at all and it turns out they were just playing me and telling me what they thought I wanted to hear. (even though what I really wanted to hear was the truth and not some bullshit story). yes - being bullshitted feels very much like being cheated.
subtlevixen:
have my cake and eat it too? What - you are the cake? I am sorry but I DON"T want that cake. I prefer my "cake" to be responsonsible, employed, honest, non-abusive, adult, able to handle their feelings - particularly their anger, and self reliant.