Good afternoon! How about reading text about me today? hahaha There are two things I would never do again. The first is: Put the happiness dr someone above mine:
With a bit of maturity, I realized that we do not have to make a movie like that and be suffering to make the next one happy, it's really just drama to call the public. In real life we have to enter into an agreement where both parties are well with the decision of the other, no matter if it is family, friend, dating, we always have to seek a healthy relationship, and for that, we have to understand that we can not take attitudes that make someone we love suffer, in the same way we can not admit that someone else does the same to us. For all this has the conversation, which I have always had difficulties in using (I confess that I am still learning). I've always been very closed about what I feel, I always thought the ones next to me should have a crystal ball and understand me, but I was wrong! Expressing myself and sharing feelings is very good and helping me a lot. So try to do it too, let's get better every day, have a clean soul.
The second thing I will not do is fight for bullshit.
In fact, this decision I made was one of the most difficult of my life, I am suffering even when I decided to stop taking cola, but I stopped because I know that it is bad for me and my cycle of friendships. I recently realized that I do not have many friends because of me. It is very easy to discuss with the next by always find the owner of the reason or the victim of the event, but just as I said on the subject from above, the life is not a movie and we are not the main characters in a drama! We have to understand that an entire universe is happening inside another person, a universe of feelings, thoughts, perceptions. We can not fight over any bullshit she does, because 90% of our attitudes are idiocies we do and say. So let's take care, we will not be leading bad feelings forward, there is always a beautiful friendship that can remain without fights. Even being the hardest thing to do in the world for me hahahaha
Well, that's it. I hope you had the patience to read.
Thanks @missy and @rambo