Omgosh. So...I got dumped by this guy I liked a lot who turned out to be an average yo-yo type who can't make up his mind on what he wants. Okay, well, technically I dumped him, but that was because he said he wasn't feeling me the way I was feeling him (I told him I cared for him after we had sex; he was like, "uh..."). What's a girl to do? Definitely NOT hang around for El Doucher to figure out if he's into me or not...especially since we bumped uglies. I'm too pretty to be a hold-out. So, instead, I decided to get a gym membership, work out my bummed feelings on the elliptical and find someone who is both a) hotter, and b) realizes what a great thing he has when he has me. Easy, right? We shall see.
So far there are plenty of people that want to get to know me, but the real quality gents (and ladies, I can't forget about y'all either) are slim pickings here in Columbus. Since my divorce 4 years ago, I went kinda hog wild sexually and I think I'm throwing a vibe that I might be *gasp* easy. So, I'm gonna slow it down, way down, save my big O's for my favorite sex toy and let the hotties work a little for it for once.
Yes, it's difficult. They aren't kidding when they say a woman doesn't reach her sexual peak until her 30's. Since turning 30 last year, I feel like I could fuck King Kong and still have the stamina to take on Godzilla. Maybe even at the same time. I'm horny, like, ALL THE TIME. But they also say that good things come to those who wait, and since I am an old-fashioned chick at heart (I def want the wedding, the baby and the picket white fence) I suppose it won't hurt me to put my sexual juices on ice for the time being and really get to know someone before jumping into the sack. Hopefully though it won't take me too long to meet the Right One.
On another note, I've decided since my job as sexy housekeeper doesn't require a tremendous amount of mental energy; in order to keep my intellectual zest fresh I'm going to write a book. I haven't figured out what type of book yet, but I feel confident that whatever I end up writing will be cutting edge. I'm taking an extended holiday from marijuana so I'm just itching for some creative outlet and I think Microsoft Word is the best place to start.
Hope everyone is awesome and I think I will post some phone pics soon to keep it live.
xoxo,
Quicksand
So far there are plenty of people that want to get to know me, but the real quality gents (and ladies, I can't forget about y'all either) are slim pickings here in Columbus. Since my divorce 4 years ago, I went kinda hog wild sexually and I think I'm throwing a vibe that I might be *gasp* easy. So, I'm gonna slow it down, way down, save my big O's for my favorite sex toy and let the hotties work a little for it for once.
Yes, it's difficult. They aren't kidding when they say a woman doesn't reach her sexual peak until her 30's. Since turning 30 last year, I feel like I could fuck King Kong and still have the stamina to take on Godzilla. Maybe even at the same time. I'm horny, like, ALL THE TIME. But they also say that good things come to those who wait, and since I am an old-fashioned chick at heart (I def want the wedding, the baby and the picket white fence) I suppose it won't hurt me to put my sexual juices on ice for the time being and really get to know someone before jumping into the sack. Hopefully though it won't take me too long to meet the Right One.
On another note, I've decided since my job as sexy housekeeper doesn't require a tremendous amount of mental energy; in order to keep my intellectual zest fresh I'm going to write a book. I haven't figured out what type of book yet, but I feel confident that whatever I end up writing will be cutting edge. I'm taking an extended holiday from marijuana so I'm just itching for some creative outlet and I think Microsoft Word is the best place to start.
Hope everyone is awesome and I think I will post some phone pics soon to keep it live.
xoxo,
Quicksand
wtk10025:
Think you were very right to dump that lower level primate person. I'm not a white picket fence sort of person myself--I prefer bright lights and concrete and steel--but you are right about needing to know what you want. Avoiding those who don't is a wise choice. The book sounds like an excellent idea. Your blog writing has a lot of energy; a whole book like that could be quite amazing.
alissa:
