questionablysane

So the g/f and i broke up. It sucked, i hate being the one to be unsatisfied in a relationship. But she wasn't giving me the support i needed. None at all really. I know that sounds high maintenance, But when the woman you're dating does everything to be as detached from her feelings towards you as she can. A red flag goes up and you start to question other things about why she'd do that....

So the guys and i hit the bars in search of women. One of my buddies has been reading a book called "the Game" about how to pick women up. It was great; he'd learned that if you just get her into a conversation you're good. But his conversation starter was, "So do you floss before or after brusshing?" granted it worked. but that was horrible. So i tried my hand, i approached and asked if the hard cider i was drinking was really as girly as my buddies said it was. The answer for some was obvious, and then i floundered.

I quickly realized that actively picking women up was not my cup of tea. I'm too relaxed to walk up and attempt to get a stranger in bed with me. Its not my style. I like conversations that occur randomly. And encounters that are just as randomly occurring. Not trying, but letting the die roll as they will. The only unfortunate side of my philosophy is the rarity of its occurrance.

So i'm back at square one, I'll play "the Game" but with no real enthusiasm. But it increases the chances of actually meeting an interesting woman. That benefit i can;t let go.