Not used to this situation.
My husband's son (his older son, think he is 28) just called him and told him he was in the hospital and had had some tests done. Didn't tell him what was wrong, just told him he had to come.
They haven't talked since summer of 2008 when my husband left Puerto Rico without attending his parents' 50th wedding anniversary because his sister had manipulated his mom into pushing us out of staying in their house the night before. Long story.
Anyway, my husband's son pretty much rejected him after this, and there was even a recent text conversation a few weeks before Thanksgiving in which his rejection of him, FOREVER, was confirmed.
So I'm a little worried right now. We figured this was definitely a moment only for my husband, and not me, so I'm stuck here at home. I'm not used to this kind of scenario because we go everywhere with each other, EVERYWHERE. I mean, if we have to move the car because it's towing night on that side of the street, we'll go out and do it together. We comfort one another's stresses and we're one another's best friends.
I don't know what's going on and I'm assuming the worst, because believe me, my husband's son wouldn't call him unless there was a gravely serious emergency and he had to make peace with himself or something.
I called my friend in California. My high school friend. She's in law school and I saw her this summer for a couple of days. Didn't answer. We're friends, I know she'll call me back.
Besides my husband, I don't really have any other friends I can call for consolation. So I called my mom. But she's got her phone off. She usually does. So I called my step-dad and he said he'd tell her I called when he got home.
I'm just waiting for a phone call from anyone, right now. Writing is my only other friend, so I guess that's where I'm at. I'm sitting on the futon with the laptop in my lap and the TV playing CSI in the background, although I couldn't tell you much about the plot right now. I should be going to sleep in 15 minutes but I know that's not going to happen.
Guess I'll watch tv to take my mind off of things.
My husband's son (his older son, think he is 28) just called him and told him he was in the hospital and had had some tests done. Didn't tell him what was wrong, just told him he had to come.
They haven't talked since summer of 2008 when my husband left Puerto Rico without attending his parents' 50th wedding anniversary because his sister had manipulated his mom into pushing us out of staying in their house the night before. Long story.
Anyway, my husband's son pretty much rejected him after this, and there was even a recent text conversation a few weeks before Thanksgiving in which his rejection of him, FOREVER, was confirmed.
So I'm a little worried right now. We figured this was definitely a moment only for my husband, and not me, so I'm stuck here at home. I'm not used to this kind of scenario because we go everywhere with each other, EVERYWHERE. I mean, if we have to move the car because it's towing night on that side of the street, we'll go out and do it together. We comfort one another's stresses and we're one another's best friends.
I don't know what's going on and I'm assuming the worst, because believe me, my husband's son wouldn't call him unless there was a gravely serious emergency and he had to make peace with himself or something.
I called my friend in California. My high school friend. She's in law school and I saw her this summer for a couple of days. Didn't answer. We're friends, I know she'll call me back.
Besides my husband, I don't really have any other friends I can call for consolation. So I called my mom. But she's got her phone off. She usually does. So I called my step-dad and he said he'd tell her I called when he got home.
I'm just waiting for a phone call from anyone, right now. Writing is my only other friend, so I guess that's where I'm at. I'm sitting on the futon with the laptop in my lap and the TV playing CSI in the background, although I couldn't tell you much about the plot right now. I should be going to sleep in 15 minutes but I know that's not going to happen.
Guess I'll watch tv to take my mind off of things.
Sending you good thoughts!