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I feel so good!
Working out together is both binding and challenging. The very healthiest way, next to sex to bring us together and make ever evident the differences in our approaches to challenges. The time walking and jogging is amongst our most passionate discussions. You don't talk non sense when every breath you take is work.
Setting and achieving goals together is rarely so...
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When it rains, one needs to remember "It can't rain all the time".
I spent two weeks back home in New York and it rained for five and a half days of it. The rain was not soft, it was not soothing it was angry, but I loved it. Nothing has ever dampened my love for New York my home, my heart. The division of...
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You find yourself not only feeling a difference but evaluating what other changes in life you can make for the better. Complacency is an unspoken sin to me.
Finding the souls that are similar to who you really are can be akin to fantasy. The mind often thinks it knows, but intuition is the voice that is sometimes too soft. Makes me think on a...
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4 Days in New Hampshire. Farm fresh eggs, coyotes howling in the night, hiking paths that only nature could make and Mother's Day with your mother visiting the places she grew up with tears of joy in her eyes. It's celebrating a year later with my wife now being cancer free that gives me pause, breathing life and focus back into my days. Gratitude is...
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Ever heard someone say "sometimes life throws you curve balls?" I am not a baseball fan so why am I playing that game with my life?
I used to read a lot. There are parts of your life that disappear if you let go of reading. Books and the world of reading are a nexus to your own soul as well as creation. Not exactly...
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Today we drove to one of my very favorite places to eat. The food is always enjoyable and even though it is a restaurant of sorts, the food is homey to me. I have been eating at Captain Porky's for almost 20 years, and the owner is such a real person when you are there. It's laughable how much I enjoy seeing my wife eat...
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Do you ever see yourself in the third person. Today at work I saw myself next to three other coworkers and realized it felt very much like one of these is not like the others.
It seems like a waste of time to try and master too many things. Instead just focus in on the ones that matter. Places like SG remind me how great...
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Sometimes a light bulb goes on that just stays there for clarity. Often I wonder about the ability to listen and how easy it is to think hearing is listening. Listening, for most is a skill that can take some effort and development. Sometimes it starts with ourselves.
Just listening to yourself is hard, even when you are not saying anything, verbally.
Within us though...
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Speaking of a Dramatic Turn in Events. The Dream Theater tour is up and coming. To say it's exciting is understating the need fulfillment. The line up of King Crimson covers is just pushing this tour to memory of them covering Metallica and Pantera. Now when they start a full on Rush cover concert.
Wifey and I have really gotten some massive laughter and media...
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