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So basically this.....



I have been fed a most delightful piece of information by a friend, turns out my suspicions were completely correct, my ex was in a full relationship with the guy she is now seeing a maximum of 1 week after we broke up fully, I say fully because we were on a 2 week break before that.

The information I was fed was about her posts on a her forum she's on, so I have it in black and white her refering to him as her "OH" and the context shows a full relationship.

I'm going to have to sleep on it to know exactly how I feel but right now I feel actually relieve, it may be horrible but I know for the first time a 100% fact about what has been plaguing me for so long and been a real obstacle for me moving on. I now know this is why the break became a full break up, I know she looked me in the eye and lied to me multiple times about there being anyone else, even when I specifically asked if she was seeing him and she even said to me by text "you deserve honesty"

I now know I have nothing to feel bad for, for 3 months after we broke up I was led to believe there was hope for us, I know exactly how much she twisted everything on me. I also know she had feelings for him while we were still together but was in denial about them. There also a hint they probably started seeing each other while we were still in the break period.

It's good to have friends you can always count on At least I now I have some clarity on that.