punkinhead

YO! Love you friends, new and old!

Greetings to my SG Friends and Neighbors, I hope this finds you well and good.

What did you get up to for the Holidays?

The missus and I spent Christmas Eve with my mother in law. It was hard - my father-in-law died this year, and my mother-in-law has really gone out of her way to avoid us...
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I come to SG when I feel like telling the truth. Or at least the whole truth.

Howdy SG Friends and Neighbors,

I hope this finds you well and good.

How was your Thanksgiving? I had a rockin' day.

So yeah, here is the shit I don't talk about on Facebook. I've been published for eleven years now butt no fiction . . . until...
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Happy birthday to me!

Hey SG Friends and neighbors, I hope this finds you well and good.

So today I turn 42.

Here is something I have learned about getting older: getting older seems to be awful for people who haven't appreciated their lives, for whatever reason.

Me? Couldn't be happier. I have had lots of adventures, gone through all the stages you might want...
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I am an SNL Digital Short!

Good morning SG friends and neighbors.

Just time for a quick one. I am about to go pick up my boy Q and take him to Trader Joe's, as he owns no car and has never been.

"Lazy Sunday, called Q to see how he's doin . . ."

be well,

ph

Taoist Thought of the Day: The Tao...
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Why isn't it cool to be a waiter?

Hey everyone, its your boy Punkinhead, as always hoping this finds you well and good.

So last night I took advantage of an opportunity to go and work catering at a big wedding a few towns over. I served, bussed, passed h'ordeuvres, worked set up and break down.

And loved it.

Back in the day I waited...
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Hey all,

I hope this finds you well and good and loving life.

I've been trying to squeeze an hour a day for nothing but work on my novel, which is going slowly. This story is so much fun to write! I think if I could get a day off free and clear, a day when I felt safe ignoring the eight million other things...
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Hey SG folks,

I hope this finds you well and good and enjoying your bit of the world.

II am watching Martha Marcy May Marline - its got me freaked out. Anyone know anyone who ever escaped from a cult? The very idea of someone who preys on the emotionally frail stresses me out and makes me want to hurt somebody.

Not much else to...
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VOTE FOR WHAT I SHOULD DO NEXT!!

Hey SG Folks,

I hope this finds you well and good and loving life.

I am a little pissed off, a little sad, a little over it all. I have an account on one of the big mainstream social media sites - you probably do too, we might even know each other in real life. Whatever.

My ex...
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Good Morning SG people,

I hope this finds you well and good and gearing up for the New Year.

Did you have a good holiday? A great holiday?

Mine was wonderful, busy and fun. Christmas Eve we drove the hour and a half to my in-laws where we had dinner, had a laugh, got a little wasted (okay, that was mainly just me who has...
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Hello SG,

I hope this finds you well and good.

So . . . what about my needs?

Seriously - have you thought about my needs this Christmas? Let me tell you what I want.

First - all of your standard bullshit. Love, family, friendship. That's what I want for Christmas.

Beyond that . . . nice stuff like good music, time with the people...
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Hey all,

I hope this finds you well and good and enjoying your winter.

My personal journey has always been away from my natural self destructive tendencies and towards happiness and balance.

Tiny things can set off my "fuck I wish I were dead" response. A small loss - even less significant, a small non-victory, can send my mood spiraling.

I want to keep working...
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Anyone got any good news? I am utterly depressed.

best -

ph