What does a Surrey girl say to her husband after having sex?....I'll be home in 10 minutes. Sigh, that one always makes me laugh. This summer weather is fucking nutter, it storms, it rains, its hot, it's windy and cold. Mother nature has a bad case of PMS. Still it's nice to see the sun when it decides to poke it's head out. After all, when the sun shines is when I do the best business. Our very pregnant boss is just about on maternity, accepted a different position so she had a conference call on her last day with all the VP's and such. So there was only one thing to do. Fill her office with balloons the night before, and cover EVERYTHING with glitter.
Seems spring fever has taken it's toll with some of the girls at work. Either single or soon to be, they have a thing or two in common. Their exes are fucking retards. Drama to a new extreme. I feel sorry for em, to a point. After a while you just get sick of bitching when all they seem to want to do is put up with more shit.
Now I've dealt with more than my fair share of crazies ( hence the moniker) but I have one advantage over these girls, I'm much bigger than my crazy ass exes. Still if I've learned one thing, it's don't get sucked in with the drama or play their games. You don't have to, they are no longer part of your life. Everyone says you want friendships, or you still want to have them in your life, blah blah blah.
Thats nice, but you need to let the fuck go and stop letting someone use your residual emotions against you. Ask yourself, would you take this crap from someone you weren't attached to because if the answer is yes than you have no spine and nothing can be done for you.
Friendships take work, friendships with exes take more than most because you have to work through the shit that caused them to become an ex. However, if they go all nutter have enough common sense to acknowledge it and move the fuck on.....with perhaps a restraining order.
Smile, enjoy the sun, appreciate what you have, and always establish a safety word before you let them tie you up.
Seems spring fever has taken it's toll with some of the girls at work. Either single or soon to be, they have a thing or two in common. Their exes are fucking retards. Drama to a new extreme. I feel sorry for em, to a point. After a while you just get sick of bitching when all they seem to want to do is put up with more shit.
Now I've dealt with more than my fair share of crazies ( hence the moniker) but I have one advantage over these girls, I'm much bigger than my crazy ass exes. Still if I've learned one thing, it's don't get sucked in with the drama or play their games. You don't have to, they are no longer part of your life. Everyone says you want friendships, or you still want to have them in your life, blah blah blah.
Thats nice, but you need to let the fuck go and stop letting someone use your residual emotions against you. Ask yourself, would you take this crap from someone you weren't attached to because if the answer is yes than you have no spine and nothing can be done for you.
Friendships take work, friendships with exes take more than most because you have to work through the shit that caused them to become an ex. However, if they go all nutter have enough common sense to acknowledge it and move the fuck on.....with perhaps a restraining order.
Smile, enjoy the sun, appreciate what you have, and always establish a safety word before you let them tie you up.
laurelin:
hey just responding to your comment on my blog, the mudder was amazing!! tough, long, worth every painful second. my only advice: do it in the summer. in may the water (and a lot fo the stuff involves water) is freezing. 41 degrees, and it cuts to the bone. however. will do it again and can't wait!