projectnova

So, I feel I should explain my whiney as all hell blog posting last night...

I've been living in SF for about 5 years now, and at this point, I only have, really, two or three people I consider close friends (and I'm going to be moving into an apartment with two of them them this fall, woowoo). I've been single for about two and a half years, but not due to not trying or due to some sort of weird malfunction that I might possess. It's really because I'm a picking bastard, and most of the girls/women I've met in SF are complete tools, flakes, or otherwise not very attractive to me. Matter of fact, most of the people I've met out here are complete jackasses.

SO there's my problem... I feel as though I don't really 'fit in' with the people who reside in this fair city. It's as if everyone I meet is only interested in either going out and partying (which I don't do) or has some weird level of pretentiousness and they're trying to fit into some kind of social 'clique' (GOD do I ever hate hipsters).

Where are the people who are more interested in a casual, intimate setting where you don't have to yell over a crowd or a giant fucking stereo system? Where are all of the people who are into sitting up until the wee hours of the morning debating politics, design aesthetic, bad video game/comic book inspired movies?

and where the hell am I supposed to meet girls who are not only attractive, but share the same sort of tastes as I do? (see above) LOL


I know it's a rant, but really, honestly, I'm just looking for better friends in this fucked up town. People who are actually looking for friendship, companionship, great conversation, good times, and not just someone to stare at from across a club or fancy restaurant table.

Any suggestions? Any takers?

And how should I go about trying to meet any of these new people I desire for my life?

I'm all ears/eyes.

-Wm.