i've come to the conclusion that I have trouble expressing my feelings towards a guy and when i do its always a bad idea.....I'm so not good at this at all.
for example.. I like this one boy and we hungout and kissed and stuff and we talk on the phone every single night and he said he likes me. But yesterday he hangs out with these 2 girls and this kid messages me and says that hes seeing her as in going out with her and likes her. So I called him to tell him about what the kid said and he didn't answer so i texted him and he calls me. I talked to him on the phone and ended up getting upset and crying and now today he said that he thinks im obsessive because of it and how I acted just set off alarms in his head because of previous relationships with peopel like that and thats not it at all. Iwas just upset and thought he was going behind my back and dating this girl when it was really just his first time of hanging out with her? Sometimes I wonder is it me ruining my chance of ever getting a boyfriend .. Am I doing something wrong or is it just the guys ... I wish I knew.
for example.. I like this one boy and we hungout and kissed and stuff and we talk on the phone every single night and he said he likes me. But yesterday he hangs out with these 2 girls and this kid messages me and says that hes seeing her as in going out with her and likes her. So I called him to tell him about what the kid said and he didn't answer so i texted him and he calls me. I talked to him on the phone and ended up getting upset and crying and now today he said that he thinks im obsessive because of it and how I acted just set off alarms in his head because of previous relationships with peopel like that and thats not it at all. Iwas just upset and thought he was going behind my back and dating this girl when it was really just his first time of hanging out with her? Sometimes I wonder is it me ruining my chance of ever getting a boyfriend .. Am I doing something wrong or is it just the guys ... I wish I knew.
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I hope your boy issues gets better, We should smack him and tell he to smarten up. you seem like a geed girl, i'm sure you can find another, better boy then this one, that seems to like to play games.