If you are in a relationship and love that person, do NOT half ass your relationship. Do NOT take them for granted. Y'all are never so solid that you can't lose them. I've learned this the hard way and I'd literally never wish this kind of pain on even my most hated enemy. Do NOT think that you can keep one foot in your house and one out the door. It is not sustainable and basically guarantees that you'll be forced out of that door. Make damn sure that both feet are in your own house. I hope my words help even just one of you. This pain is almost unbearable.