Yeah, I'm pretty sure I have two boyfriends.
So if you don't see me on here a lot, that's why.
Anyway. Sooooo... uh, yeah! I'm really just trying to wrap my head around the idea. I mean, the Boy and I have talked about this for over a year, I just never really expected anything to actually happen in real life. I keep going to work, trying to pay attention, and then the little voices in my head go "you have 2 boyfriends." I reply, "Shut the fuck up, I'm working," but they cunningly respond by flashing up slides of each. Bastards, I hate them all. I'm gonna kill 'em, lemme just go find a hammer....
Okayyyy, tangent. So we're all playing poker together tonight, plus our friend, my bestest friend without whom I so could not do this.
I think it's going to work out. Both the boys seem to genuinely like each other and they're very anxious to make me happy, which freaks me THE FUCK OUT. But if there were ever any two guys in the world with whom this would work, I think it'd be them. At this point, I also want this to work without crashing down in flames and brimstone, JUST TO PROVE IT CAN BE DONE. We shall climb the Olympus Mount and spit in the face of the philandering gods themselves! Ow ow ow, I'm sorry, please don't hurt me!
Whoo. Well, that took a lot outta me. Excuse me guys, I needa go to work and then stare awkwardly at my two boys trying to out-cool each other.
So if you don't see me on here a lot, that's why.
Anyway. Sooooo... uh, yeah! I'm really just trying to wrap my head around the idea. I mean, the Boy and I have talked about this for over a year, I just never really expected anything to actually happen in real life. I keep going to work, trying to pay attention, and then the little voices in my head go "you have 2 boyfriends." I reply, "Shut the fuck up, I'm working," but they cunningly respond by flashing up slides of each. Bastards, I hate them all. I'm gonna kill 'em, lemme just go find a hammer....
Okayyyy, tangent. So we're all playing poker together tonight, plus our friend, my bestest friend without whom I so could not do this.
I think it's going to work out. Both the boys seem to genuinely like each other and they're very anxious to make me happy, which freaks me THE FUCK OUT. But if there were ever any two guys in the world with whom this would work, I think it'd be them. At this point, I also want this to work without crashing down in flames and brimstone, JUST TO PROVE IT CAN BE DONE. We shall climb the Olympus Mount and spit in the face of the philandering gods themselves! Ow ow ow, I'm sorry, please don't hurt me!
Whoo. Well, that took a lot outta me. Excuse me guys, I needa go to work and then stare awkwardly at my two boys trying to out-cool each other.
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I've had a couple of short-term relationships like yours, and I'd have to say that its success all depends on personalities. If you or your men tend to think of relationships as involving ownership (i.e., your his, he's yours) or if they have strong feelings about the way things ought to be relationship-wise, then it's probably not going to work out, regardless of how willing they are to experiment now.
Check out Barbara Foster, Michael Foster, and Letha Hadady's "Three in love : mnages trois from ancient to modern times". It's not a great study, but it does point up some threesomes that have succeeded, including Warren Buffett's (who'd of thought anything sexually interesting ever happens out in the corn).
make that
there's this silly saying about cakes and eating
that you might want to look into. i've heard such
relationships can be fraught with pitfalls, though
i'm much too turned on by the thought of two
yummies of my own to imagine what they might be.
enjoy it whilst it lasts.
edited because i can't spelt.
[Edited on Nov 18, 2004 11:56PM]