Ok so the gf got back yesterday & of course we had to have a blow out...& what about but SG again...she made some very valid points about th objectification of women & such & I made some valid points about the freedom to read/look at what I want...but what it boils down to is this: this site has lots of hot girls on it YES-they are what draw each & every one of us to it initially...but once you hang out for a bit-it becomes less about the SG's & more about the friends you make....HOWEVER supporting a site that objectifies women is only perpetuating the dominion of men over women blah blah blah...I agree with this on a very basic level. Another piece of me is like-something is only bad if you make it bad. If you take the sight of a beautiful women & that is all she ever becomes...but then the other side pipes in again & says: do you see sites out there for straight women that have hot naked guys on them & that is why they join...SB for example...well not that I've seen...therefore the ol' lady has a point...so I'm at a juncture where I may just quite. She isn't making me-she just doesn't understand it. She'd like me to look for other sites that have cool people on it that I can talk to about bikes & tatts & music & such. So I said I will but I will stay on SG...she said ok-as long as I understand where she is coming from...ok so I do. So anyways-that is where I'm at right now. I know she sounds like a jeoulous, femi-nazi but reallly she is not at all...& of course that sounds like an excuse. Oh well-I can do nothing about that. In the meantime I'm mulling over what I want to do. In any event-if I quit I will stay in touch with my cool friends I have met here. You guys are the best...I'll keep you posted... 
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my gf isn't completely comfortable with me being on this site, like i have written you before about. it's hard to even get her to come to an event occasionally! maybe if you brought your gf out to a SG event and she met some of the people you have made friends with, she'll get a better perspective about who this site caters to. i dunno.......
I find myself almost never looking at the photo sets. I only post in the jounal and groups. I dig SG because of the members ......not just because of naked women. I like naked women but I could see that on other web sites. I think SG is about something better than a "Porn" Site.
Anyways .............what are you gonna do?
Chicks!