NINE LEVELS OF ORGASM by Janet Kira Lessin; Dec 22 Tantra School in Maui
While both feel wonderful, men and women’s orgasms are completely different. The misunderstanding surrounding the differences in orgasms cause much of humanity’s pain. Through a thorough understanding of the differences in orgasms, lovers can become sexually compatible and experience more love, joy, satisfaction and unity. They become one, feel each other and when people feel one another completely, they are less likely to harm them, even unconsciously.
A man’s orgasm is a sharp peak while a woman experiences a series of waves rising followed by one declining wave. To better understand, the female orgasm is separated into nine steps or stages of experience, but in reality the steps are joined together and overlap in various degrees creating a multi-level experience.
A woman riding the orgasmic wave resembles a lotus flower blossoming. As the woman orgasms, the flower gently unfolds until she experiences all nine levels of orgasm, which is considered a complete orgasm. When she is in full bloom, this totally open flower is exquisite, yet vulnerable. She now surrenders to you, her devotee, the man (or woman), who has served her so well.
Each orgasm level energizes specific body parts and evokes observable response in the woman:
Lungs: The woman sighs, breathes heavy, salivates
Heart: Woman extends tongue to her lover while kissing
Spleen, Pancreas, Stomach: Woman grasps and holds man tightly with activated muscles
Kidneys, Bladder: Vaginal spasms and secretions flow
Bones: Joints loosen and she may feel the urge to bite her lover
Liver, Nerves: Woman undulates and gyrates like a snake, wrapping limbs around her lover
Blood: Blood boiling, she frantically touches her lover everywhere
Muscles: Muscles relax. Urge to bite intensifies as she grabs her lover's nipples
Entire Body Energized: Woman collapses in "mini death", surrenders to her lover and is completely open
There’s More After Four
Many mistake the level four vaginal orgasm as the complete orgasm, but you’re only half way there to a complete orgasm (which is all nine levels). Before tantra, it was believed women had the same type of single peak orgasm as men; peak then drop. How little we knew. Until now. Keep going.
Once the Goddess reaches the forth level, her devotee can easily bring her to higher levels with just a little movement.
Stay focused, ride the Shakti wave with her. Keep loving her as you assist her to higher and higher levels until she reaches the ninth level, that level of total orgasmic bliss where the two of you become one. Learn the secrets of other levels as you carefully watch your Goddess. Her joy is your joy. You feel every pulse, nuance, breath, vibration and together you reach the heavens. At that point, it doesn’t even matter who’s body does what. You are one. And even here, what seems like the highest of highs, the journey to heaven has just begun. But before we reach level four, we must understand the difference between regular bodily secretions and amrita.
The Female Sacred Space
The most effective way to begin giving level nine orgasms to your lady is to stimulate the female sacred sector, more commonly know as the G-spot. Although Ernst Grafenberg is commonly given credit for "discovering" the G-spot,(actually not a gland or nerve but an area of tissue surrounding the urethra sponge which swells when aroused as blood rushes to that area) has been known about for thousands of years, especially by the ancients in India which they called the "yoni-nadi".
Location varies based on the individual, but can generally be found somewhere between one to four inches inside the anterior wall of the vagina. Over time, through a process called stimulus generalization, the "spot" can be expanded to broader and broader areas of the yoni, until eventually the entire area from clitoris to rose bud becomes and erogenous zone.
Stimulus Generalization is a process where an area that feels pleasurable can be enlarged and sensitized through associating one place, which feels good, to another place nearby, which may be painful or numb. Link the two places by moving fingers back and forth between while releasing any pain, negative energies or memories.
Stimulus Association can create associations to pleasure in areas of the body that otherwise would not be considered erogenous zones. Try this experiment. When you lover is having an orgasm, grab her or his right ear. Do this repeatedly over several orgasms. After you have done so, see what happens when you're out at a restaurant and you grab her or his right ear. Your beloved will probably have an orgasm or at least give you a smile with a twinkle in their eyes. Let me know your results!
Woman’s Secretions
Women’s orgasmic secretions are different than men’s. Some are odorless, colorless and opaque mucus with little nutritional value However, sometimes the woman will ejaculate amrita.
What is Amrita?
Amrita is the fluid that ejaculates following the stimulation of the urethral glands, either by intercourse (correct the angle of penetration to hit the sacred sector) or by direct stimulation with fingers, accompanied by the sense of feeling safe and open. For some women additional stimulation, pressing downward from the outside of the body above the pubic bone, may help facilitate this release. This liquid is generated from both the urethral glands and ducts and mixed in the urethra with the clear fluid that originates in the bladder. Sweet tasting, this , the mythological divine fountain-of-youth nector is associated with level nine orgasms. Drink hearty, live longer
Once amrita and deep vaginal orgasms begin to flow for you after digital and oral simulation and you "learn" how to do them, they become much easier to experience during intercourse. That’s not to mean that amrita orgasms become your goal when you make love and you fail if you don’t achieve one. All orgasms are pleasurable. Enjoy each type just as you enjoy a wide variety of food.
Problems with organs indicate probable imbalances for women who have never been taken past the corresponding orgasmic level when making love. Repeated interruptions at that level create imbalances in the related organs. Most women never experience true orgasm due to the mistaken belief that she is complete at level four. So orgasms are not only pleasurable and fun, they’re a good health practice, too.