So i kinda met someone new who is really cool and all that jazz. And of course i'm moving in three weeks and i don't have any interest to be in a relationship and a THOUSAND other things... But of course it grabs your attention and it's all you can think about. That's what girls do.
so like... I guess i was wondering if anyone had advice on how they might approach this. Like even if it has no chance of a future, should i just kinda dive head first into things because it could be a great experience? Or should i stay the hell out of it and try and just be friends? Is it possible to be mutual friends without excluding the possibility of a future relationship? or is it possible to get close or just hook up and then go to being friends so suddenly?
i guess.. it'd be nice to experience dating someone new, but then i could lose a potential long-term friend if things don't work out well.
oh. and working at teh cafe has been the most wonderful experience ever. I can't begin to tell you how good it feels to be part of a community and BELONG for the FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE. People know me. THey ask me how i'm doing and they're actually interested. People remember things i talk about and..
and well it's just something i've never had in my whole life. And i'm overcome with joy and sadness. Joy because it is one of the most wonderful feelings i've ever felt and sadness because i'm leaving just as quickly as i came. To me, there will never be another Hard Bean Cafe.
so like... I guess i was wondering if anyone had advice on how they might approach this. Like even if it has no chance of a future, should i just kinda dive head first into things because it could be a great experience? Or should i stay the hell out of it and try and just be friends? Is it possible to be mutual friends without excluding the possibility of a future relationship? or is it possible to get close or just hook up and then go to being friends so suddenly?
i guess.. it'd be nice to experience dating someone new, but then i could lose a potential long-term friend if things don't work out well.
oh. and working at teh cafe has been the most wonderful experience ever. I can't begin to tell you how good it feels to be part of a community and BELONG for the FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE. People know me. THey ask me how i'm doing and they're actually interested. People remember things i talk about and..
and well it's just something i've never had in my whole life. And i'm overcome with joy and sadness. Joy because it is one of the most wonderful feelings i've ever felt and sadness because i'm leaving just as quickly as i came. To me, there will never be another Hard Bean Cafe.
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