phatlaces

Yeah, I guess I'm the one to thank for that. All sarcasm aside, I think of it more along the lines of giving due respect to those who've been through a traumatic experience. So, you are very welcome in that aspect.
I hope people will use that thread for its intended purpose.

Thanks for stopping by, none the less. I don't get many visitors. lol

N.

i wasn't trying to say it's depressing -- that's what one person said when they started the thread. but most said it was being compared to others and the critiquing and the cattiness of it all that can be bad.