peggy

So, here's how my mother's day went....

It started last night by him turning me down to "get some" by just going to sleep while I was trying.

Then today he was on the computer for an hour trying to print 1 picture for his grandmother that he didn't even go see. I think he just didn't want to spend the time with me.

Once he finds out that I'm upset about last night he freaks out on me and starts calling me all kinds of names and tells me to take off my new ring (which was my present) so that he can smash it. I took it off but he didn't.

Instead he started complaining about how much money it cost and that it took out of what was saved for the new house. I didn't ask him to buy it for me so I took it back to the store a few hours ago.

So I just wanted him to leave after that so maybe he will realize how he overreacted, but instead he freaks out again swearing and yelling and tells me that I ruined my own mother's day, not him. Then he leaves.

He returns and finds that I'm in our room instead of watching his little sister (his mom and dad and brother were all outside for that) but proceeds to yell at me some more and call me names even though I'm just sitting on the floor crying. Among other things were "you're going to die without me and no one will miss you" and "your son doesn't even need you" So, I said I would just leave and he said that would be great.

I got a few text messages from him saying that I should calm down....??? I wasn't the mean one.....and that if I came back he would just stay away from me. I came back and as soon as he saw me he started slamming doors and fighting again.

End result: I was told he hates me, I guess he hasn't loved me in awhile. And that I'm to find an apartment as soon as possible. He left for now but he took our son so that I couldn't see him at all today. And he smashed my cell phone so I can't even make any calls.

I have no idea what to do.