Today is such a beautiful day. It was 8:40 am when i woke up. I woke up to the sound of my nieces running around. Yesterday was one hell of a day.
The day before yesterday i told my sister to be ready by 8:00 am because after dropping off the kids at school i would take her and the boys to Disneyland on my way to work. Given the fact that yesterday was her birthday she gets in for free and the kids are under 3 so they also get in for free. Her boyfriend's sister works there so she got him in for free.
So i arrive on Friday morning at 740 and her daughter isn't ready for school. She doesn't start until 820 so i drop off my brother and come back. I eventually convince my sister of coming along in order to help her daughter eat breakfast at school.
On our way back neither of the kids were ready. I understand she has 6 kids and that's a lot to work with but she's usually on time with these things. I end up finding out that she went out late last night and that's why she didn't wake up on time.
So i'm there helping her find shoes for the kids and feeding them. Two of the girls with be going to a daycare center and get picked up at 900 and the 3 boys will be going to disneyland.
Angel (one of the twin boys with the circled rash i mentioned earlier) was feeling a little down. To update on his condition, we ended up buying the medicine. The doctor Rx Zithromax for 6 months to prevent it from becoming Chronic Lyme. We had just tested him and are currently waiting on the lab results but don't want to wait until the results come in in order for us to give him the medication as a precaution. The only thing we need to get are the shots. He needs to get one shot every month for six months. Those shots are going to cost us $320 and that is at a discounted price.
My sister doesn't have that kind of money and i will need to save up. Luckily i have an extra check coming in within 2 weeks from now so i will be able to buy them.
So he was excited once he heard they were going to Disneyland. I usually go to work around 840 but the office isn't "officially" open until 10 am. THe doctor told me she would show up early and be at the office by 9am. I didn't get to the office until 12pm! I was afraid she would start questioning where i was at and whatnot. Luckily she didn't show up until 30 min after i did. Pheeew! close call.
What frustrates me about my sister is that she doesn't take for consideration what other people do for her and the risks that they take for her sometimes. I mean my mom is out of the country and she's usually the one to help her out. Now without her around she pretty much is on her own. I help her with what i can but she still has a huge load on her shoulders. She doesn't understand that i can lose my job for doing favors this big for her, or how i sometimes i'm struggling for gas money but yet i drive her around or have to escape from work because she was irresponsible and needed to either get something from my house or needed some sort of important favor.
Anyway, i got out of work around 6pm and headed off to the bank to withdraw money and pay bills later throughout the day. The ATM was being difficult so i went inside. I find out that the bank froze my account and cancelled my debit card. So i speak to a rep and they told me that it was due to too many "empty envelope" deposits. So i freak out and explain to them.
1-the first time i deposited money through the ATM, the money was lost and didn't find it until 2 months later. I can't afford that right now.
2-when i was going to deposit money through the ATM, i panicked and put in an empty envelope while i wrote my information on the one that had money so they don't give me the excuse that they lost my money. So it showed as though they received 2 deposits but they later adjusted that.
3- I grab a handful of envelopes and write my info on them so next time i just grab and envelope put my $ in there and deposit it without forgetting. So i put my check in one of them. Stupid me put it in the glove compartment with the rest. Assuming it was at the top, i grab the envelope and deposit it. It turns out i grabbed the wrong envelope. My check was still in my glove compartment.
So they said they would have to order me a new card until Tuesday due to the holiday and it would take approx 7 days to arrive.
7 DAYS?! What the hell will i do in the meantime?! UGH!!!!
So i ended up going home and went to the store and bought some groceries. Then i went to my aunt's house and picked up the girls and brought them over.
Pookey made us all spaghetti! We all had a nice dinner and i put the girls to sleep.
I stayed up until 11 talking to my parents through Skype. Then my sister calls telling me that they are out and i head off to Disneyland again. I pick them up and i assumed the kids would be tired. The smallest one was asleep already. We call him "squishy" because he's so chubby and the twins were so energetic. They didn't want to go to sleep. My sister and her bf were exhausted!
So i drop them off at home and head back home.
SLeep! at last. I wake up and look out my window and see a beautiful fresh bright morning. The smell of wet grass and the fresh breeze. The soothing sound of cars passing by, almost sounds like ocean waves.
I'm a bit more relaxed now.
I'm staying positive in regards to Angel's condition, either way, he's taking medication just in case so i have a piece of mind now.
I still believe he was bit by something else. I'm not convinced it was a tick but i continue my search. I mean, do rashes caused my insect bites turn into bruises? or do they just fade away but remain red?
Anyway, i'm hoping for the best. I was also hoping to take my bro shopping for school clothes but i guess it can either wait or burry myself deeper in credit card dept.
I'm almost done paying off my Victoria secret card by $48, Macy's i still have $208 and Bank of America is most likely above $1,000.
Well, i hope for the best. For now, i'm looking forward to a wonderful day
The day before yesterday i told my sister to be ready by 8:00 am because after dropping off the kids at school i would take her and the boys to Disneyland on my way to work. Given the fact that yesterday was her birthday she gets in for free and the kids are under 3 so they also get in for free. Her boyfriend's sister works there so she got him in for free.
So i arrive on Friday morning at 740 and her daughter isn't ready for school. She doesn't start until 820 so i drop off my brother and come back. I eventually convince my sister of coming along in order to help her daughter eat breakfast at school.
On our way back neither of the kids were ready. I understand she has 6 kids and that's a lot to work with but she's usually on time with these things. I end up finding out that she went out late last night and that's why she didn't wake up on time.
So i'm there helping her find shoes for the kids and feeding them. Two of the girls with be going to a daycare center and get picked up at 900 and the 3 boys will be going to disneyland.
Angel (one of the twin boys with the circled rash i mentioned earlier) was feeling a little down. To update on his condition, we ended up buying the medicine. The doctor Rx Zithromax for 6 months to prevent it from becoming Chronic Lyme. We had just tested him and are currently waiting on the lab results but don't want to wait until the results come in in order for us to give him the medication as a precaution. The only thing we need to get are the shots. He needs to get one shot every month for six months. Those shots are going to cost us $320 and that is at a discounted price.
My sister doesn't have that kind of money and i will need to save up. Luckily i have an extra check coming in within 2 weeks from now so i will be able to buy them.
So he was excited once he heard they were going to Disneyland. I usually go to work around 840 but the office isn't "officially" open until 10 am. THe doctor told me she would show up early and be at the office by 9am. I didn't get to the office until 12pm! I was afraid she would start questioning where i was at and whatnot. Luckily she didn't show up until 30 min after i did. Pheeew! close call.
What frustrates me about my sister is that she doesn't take for consideration what other people do for her and the risks that they take for her sometimes. I mean my mom is out of the country and she's usually the one to help her out. Now without her around she pretty much is on her own. I help her with what i can but she still has a huge load on her shoulders. She doesn't understand that i can lose my job for doing favors this big for her, or how i sometimes i'm struggling for gas money but yet i drive her around or have to escape from work because she was irresponsible and needed to either get something from my house or needed some sort of important favor.
Anyway, i got out of work around 6pm and headed off to the bank to withdraw money and pay bills later throughout the day. The ATM was being difficult so i went inside. I find out that the bank froze my account and cancelled my debit card. So i speak to a rep and they told me that it was due to too many "empty envelope" deposits. So i freak out and explain to them.
1-the first time i deposited money through the ATM, the money was lost and didn't find it until 2 months later. I can't afford that right now.
2-when i was going to deposit money through the ATM, i panicked and put in an empty envelope while i wrote my information on the one that had money so they don't give me the excuse that they lost my money. So it showed as though they received 2 deposits but they later adjusted that.
3- I grab a handful of envelopes and write my info on them so next time i just grab and envelope put my $ in there and deposit it without forgetting. So i put my check in one of them. Stupid me put it in the glove compartment with the rest. Assuming it was at the top, i grab the envelope and deposit it. It turns out i grabbed the wrong envelope. My check was still in my glove compartment.
So they said they would have to order me a new card until Tuesday due to the holiday and it would take approx 7 days to arrive.
7 DAYS?! What the hell will i do in the meantime?! UGH!!!!
So i ended up going home and went to the store and bought some groceries. Then i went to my aunt's house and picked up the girls and brought them over.
Pookey made us all spaghetti! We all had a nice dinner and i put the girls to sleep.
I stayed up until 11 talking to my parents through Skype. Then my sister calls telling me that they are out and i head off to Disneyland again. I pick them up and i assumed the kids would be tired. The smallest one was asleep already. We call him "squishy" because he's so chubby and the twins were so energetic. They didn't want to go to sleep. My sister and her bf were exhausted!
So i drop them off at home and head back home.
SLeep! at last. I wake up and look out my window and see a beautiful fresh bright morning. The smell of wet grass and the fresh breeze. The soothing sound of cars passing by, almost sounds like ocean waves.
I'm a bit more relaxed now.
I'm staying positive in regards to Angel's condition, either way, he's taking medication just in case so i have a piece of mind now.
I still believe he was bit by something else. I'm not convinced it was a tick but i continue my search. I mean, do rashes caused my insect bites turn into bruises? or do they just fade away but remain red?
Anyway, i'm hoping for the best. I was also hoping to take my bro shopping for school clothes but i guess it can either wait or burry myself deeper in credit card dept.
I'm almost done paying off my Victoria secret card by $48, Macy's i still have $208 and Bank of America is most likely above $1,000.
Well, i hope for the best. For now, i'm looking forward to a wonderful day
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It was so nice of you to do all that stuff, a kid who has been thru something like that deserves to get to go to Disneyland and well Im sure it would be a fun birthday for your sister, I would like to go there for my birthday.
You sister needs to start realizing how much you have done for her and realize it is hard on you, most people would not do that kind of stuff for her.
Banks can be so fucking rude some times, they have fucked me over so many times.
I hope your sister and her boy and her kids had a really good time.
I really hope the kid is going to be just fine, I will be thinking of him.
I have almost paid off most of my debts, I have been paying on an almost $20,000 credit card debt for 4 years, it will be paid off in October, Im going to be so happy the day that happens.