So I think I f*cked up. It started when I went out drinking with a friend/coworker two weeks ago. Prior to this outing I was always the DD. But I had a hard week, so the bartender kept giving me drinks and I kept drinking them. We ended up catching a cab back to my apartment and she fell asleep on my lap on the couch. The next week the same deal, fell asleep on the couch, except this time she moved my hands onto the chest and "special bits". I ended up getting her off while we watched a movie. We are always flirty out in public, but we've told each other we don't have romantic feelings. The next morning she started asking me questions, "Would you let my girlfriend use your toothbrush?""How do you feel about open mouth kissing?""What's your deal with oral sex?" I'm a germaphobe. She said it's because she is interested in how I deal with the exchange of fluids with my condition. But it felt like she wanted to know how to approach the situation if it arose again. FYI- Nothing arose that night on my part. Last night her and a friend invited me out next week for a free night of drinking and a cab ride home. I don't really know what to say to her, plus I work with her 2-3 days a week. Does anyone have any ideas as to how to deal with this dilemma?
the_matt79:
If you're having fun it's not really a dilemma, seems like a couple people want to have some "fun" with you. So really it's all down to if you want to have "fun" as well, at least that seems to be what it all boils down to.