ok, so yesterday this kid from here ims me. he's a nice guy, we're having a nice convo.
today- one of his friends ims me, and we're talking, getting along...and i made a comment early in our conversation that i am not looking for anyone at the moment. so a time later in the convo he decides to inquire about my sexual preference. so he says
"so do you sleep around a lot, or are you a lez or a virgin?"
i found this as an appropriate way to ask a question of this nature, so i said "wow rude. i am in a relationship thank you very much" and he said he was joking and he was sorry or whatever. so ok. so i say "yeah i see why you like dumb girls" (that's what he said- he likes the dumb girl type)
so we had a discussion about why he likes dumb girls. and he says "i bet you keep your boyfriend in check don't you" "i bet you make him lick your feet don't you, i bet you get off on that kind of thing"
by this time i had asked him repeatedly to stop and he wouldn't. and now the owner of this screen name, is trying to blame me for his friend making an unwanted sexual comment towards me that is none of his business??
if i could report him on here i would, but unforturnately this all happened on aim- and i put my im name on here at my own risk i guess.
but still he tells me i'm dumb and crazy and i need to get my story staright because HE can't understand what offended me. i told him exactly what offended me and why about 5 times. i told him that the sexual comments about my relationship offended me and what was said and the kid kept saying
"so you're offended that he asked your sexual preference?"
me: "no i'm offended by what he said about my relationship"
him: "what did he say?"
me: " told you this like 5 TIMES previous! *copies and paste what his friend says about me getting off"
him: "so he only asked your sexual preference, that's not a big deal"
WTF?!?!?!?! but i am the dumb one?? ahh and then he starts telling me what i should've said differently. and i'm like, ya know? it's just like society to blame the GIRL for being harrassed for no reason. i am not supposed to stick up for myself and tell this person that these comments are unwanted? and when this person fails to stop commenting i am not allowed to threatened taking it to a higher authority to defend myself???
it wouldn't have been a big deal if this guys said " wait you're misunderstanding what i'm saying let me explain to you what i mean" therefore, i feel that after the repeated request of him to STOP saying offensive things - and he continues, that he had the intent to offend. i love how *I* get blamed for provoking a guy to say offensive sexual things to me just by talking to him. HE imed ME in the first place. *balls fists* aahhh i am so frustrated!
it's times like these when i'm about to become super feminist.
today- one of his friends ims me, and we're talking, getting along...and i made a comment early in our conversation that i am not looking for anyone at the moment. so a time later in the convo he decides to inquire about my sexual preference. so he says
"so do you sleep around a lot, or are you a lez or a virgin?"
i found this as an appropriate way to ask a question of this nature, so i said "wow rude. i am in a relationship thank you very much" and he said he was joking and he was sorry or whatever. so ok. so i say "yeah i see why you like dumb girls" (that's what he said- he likes the dumb girl type)
so we had a discussion about why he likes dumb girls. and he says "i bet you keep your boyfriend in check don't you" "i bet you make him lick your feet don't you, i bet you get off on that kind of thing"
by this time i had asked him repeatedly to stop and he wouldn't. and now the owner of this screen name, is trying to blame me for his friend making an unwanted sexual comment towards me that is none of his business??
if i could report him on here i would, but unforturnately this all happened on aim- and i put my im name on here at my own risk i guess.
but still he tells me i'm dumb and crazy and i need to get my story staright because HE can't understand what offended me. i told him exactly what offended me and why about 5 times. i told him that the sexual comments about my relationship offended me and what was said and the kid kept saying
"so you're offended that he asked your sexual preference?"
me: "no i'm offended by what he said about my relationship"
him: "what did he say?"
me: " told you this like 5 TIMES previous! *copies and paste what his friend says about me getting off"
him: "so he only asked your sexual preference, that's not a big deal"
WTF?!?!?!?! but i am the dumb one?? ahh and then he starts telling me what i should've said differently. and i'm like, ya know? it's just like society to blame the GIRL for being harrassed for no reason. i am not supposed to stick up for myself and tell this person that these comments are unwanted? and when this person fails to stop commenting i am not allowed to threatened taking it to a higher authority to defend myself???
it wouldn't have been a big deal if this guys said " wait you're misunderstanding what i'm saying let me explain to you what i mean" therefore, i feel that after the repeated request of him to STOP saying offensive things - and he continues, that he had the intent to offend. i love how *I* get blamed for provoking a guy to say offensive sexual things to me just by talking to him. HE imed ME in the first place. *balls fists* aahhh i am so frustrated!
it's times like these when i'm about to become super feminist.
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penelopelee:
hahahaa. what a loooosah. yeah. stupid boys im me from this site all the time talking stupid shit. just block them. everything else is a waste of time.
solimond:
Fuck 'em. There are a million people, men and women (though mostly men) who will make you feel rotten if you let them. Nobody can hurt you unless you let them (barring physically, of course).