This morning I woke up to find the dog had gotten bored and decided to chew apart a couple of my books, my journal, and since the husband didn't take him out in the morning he pissed on a pile of stuff sitting on the floor. All I could thing was...LOVELY! Granted at the time I realized he couldn't really help it as he was shut up in my room...but man that's not the way to wake up in the morning!
Last night sucked big time! Usually I'm pretty cool and understanding about the husband needing his time to unwind. Which usually means playing video games for an hour or so but dude yesterday he spent the entire day gaming and then got pissed at me for not having a plan for the day. Like I'm the activity planner for our lives! Then after his friend came over I was basically told to suck it up because he was going to game and it didn't matter what I wanted to do! Then wonders why I'm pissed and then gets pissed at me for being mad at him! This kind of crap gives me that paranoid eye twitch I avoid having. I'm not one for this kind of lameness and drama.
So I got a couple weeks left before we are all off to Vegas. We are still trying to nail down plans. At one point I thought it was fortunate that his parents were paying for part the trip as our honeymoon but now it's just complicating matters. Last year when we were at Viva Las Vegas we decided it would be more fun to have our friends from back home with us. So to make things easier and more cost efficient for all of us we decided to go in all the expenses. Now the in laws are saying they don't want to help us because they think that's now how a honeymoon is supposed to be spent. LAME! The mother in law says they'd rather put our friends up with them than help us split a two bedroom suite with a friend. GAH! Then again it would be funny to have my ass hole friends staying with the bible beaters BUT I doubt that would work out for the best. GAH! I just want things to be settled already.
As it is I'm stressing out majorly because well...I was born and raised in Hawaii. Last year I froze my ass off the entire time we were there. So now that I have no warm clothes to go I can actually go and have myself a good time. This fun fact and reason of stress for me comes around at the opportune time when my husband doesn't want me to spend any money. I'm doing my best to be good and not touch the checking account but jeez! I don't need it beat into my brain that he wants to start saving.
Well kiddies I'm not usually this down or whiney but GAH!!!! I feel all gross now for bitching...I'm sure I'll figure out some way to get out of this suckfest!
Last night sucked big time! Usually I'm pretty cool and understanding about the husband needing his time to unwind. Which usually means playing video games for an hour or so but dude yesterday he spent the entire day gaming and then got pissed at me for not having a plan for the day. Like I'm the activity planner for our lives! Then after his friend came over I was basically told to suck it up because he was going to game and it didn't matter what I wanted to do! Then wonders why I'm pissed and then gets pissed at me for being mad at him! This kind of crap gives me that paranoid eye twitch I avoid having. I'm not one for this kind of lameness and drama.
So I got a couple weeks left before we are all off to Vegas. We are still trying to nail down plans. At one point I thought it was fortunate that his parents were paying for part the trip as our honeymoon but now it's just complicating matters. Last year when we were at Viva Las Vegas we decided it would be more fun to have our friends from back home with us. So to make things easier and more cost efficient for all of us we decided to go in all the expenses. Now the in laws are saying they don't want to help us because they think that's now how a honeymoon is supposed to be spent. LAME! The mother in law says they'd rather put our friends up with them than help us split a two bedroom suite with a friend. GAH! Then again it would be funny to have my ass hole friends staying with the bible beaters BUT I doubt that would work out for the best. GAH! I just want things to be settled already.
As it is I'm stressing out majorly because well...I was born and raised in Hawaii. Last year I froze my ass off the entire time we were there. So now that I have no warm clothes to go I can actually go and have myself a good time. This fun fact and reason of stress for me comes around at the opportune time when my husband doesn't want me to spend any money. I'm doing my best to be good and not touch the checking account but jeez! I don't need it beat into my brain that he wants to start saving.
Well kiddies I'm not usually this down or whiney but GAH!!!! I feel all gross now for bitching...I'm sure I'll figure out some way to get out of this suckfest!