so there is this girl i was really into for awhile that totally played me, i dont know why it always happens to me, but it seems like it does. the girls that use me for what they want while leading me along leading me to belive we have(or will have) a relationship FAR outnumber the number of real girls i have gone out with. so here is my sad story(im not kidding myself, im a sad individual.)
like most people i know, i met her through a friend(to save myself some dignity im not using ANY names, you never know who is a member, ha) because, frankly im not the type to go out and meet people. even in my environment, which is a small town where i know alot of people, i have a had timebeing social. so i was introduced to her, and how could i not be into her, she was beautiful, had a great smile, wonderful personality and a good sence of humor. so after seeing her a few times with friends, i offer to take her snowboarding, just the two of us, and i thought we had a great time, carried on conversations all day, even on the long drive home, and not even my closest friends can deal having to talk to me that long.....im boring. anyway a week passes, we send little gay text messages back and forth and one night she calls me and says she is getting kicked out of her appartment and needs someone to halp her move her stuff into my aunts house(yeah MY aunts house, her and my cousin are friends) so i help her move at a great loss to myself seeing as we didnt get done till 2AM and i leave home for work at 6AM and my job is physicaly demanding. so christmas and new year come and go(i spent it in oregon with my family and REAL friends). i think we talked on the phone once or twice and sent a few text messages to keep up the illusion of friendship im guessing. and in january i saw her a few times for dinner and hanging out here and there. then two weeks ago she calls me again asking me to move her into her new appt. once again on a worknight and no notice till 30 min before she asked me to be there. so i spent another miserable, tired day at work again. and since then whenever i talk to her she is busy, cant do this, cant do that, she already has plans for all her weekends a month in advance.....she doesnt need me anymore is the picture i get.
so im sure there isnt a single person on this site that read all that, but just in case im wrong, what is my problem. was i too nice and she saw the change to take advantage and did, is it just bad luck that this happens over and over again, or is that how everyone works and i just need to get used to it? i find it to be very frustrating/humiliating/irritating and as far as im concerned i will never be nice to a pretty girl again(unless she was an SG of coarse, haha)
like most people i know, i met her through a friend(to save myself some dignity im not using ANY names, you never know who is a member, ha) because, frankly im not the type to go out and meet people. even in my environment, which is a small town where i know alot of people, i have a had timebeing social. so i was introduced to her, and how could i not be into her, she was beautiful, had a great smile, wonderful personality and a good sence of humor. so after seeing her a few times with friends, i offer to take her snowboarding, just the two of us, and i thought we had a great time, carried on conversations all day, even on the long drive home, and not even my closest friends can deal having to talk to me that long.....im boring. anyway a week passes, we send little gay text messages back and forth and one night she calls me and says she is getting kicked out of her appartment and needs someone to halp her move her stuff into my aunts house(yeah MY aunts house, her and my cousin are friends) so i help her move at a great loss to myself seeing as we didnt get done till 2AM and i leave home for work at 6AM and my job is physicaly demanding. so christmas and new year come and go(i spent it in oregon with my family and REAL friends). i think we talked on the phone once or twice and sent a few text messages to keep up the illusion of friendship im guessing. and in january i saw her a few times for dinner and hanging out here and there. then two weeks ago she calls me again asking me to move her into her new appt. once again on a worknight and no notice till 30 min before she asked me to be there. so i spent another miserable, tired day at work again. and since then whenever i talk to her she is busy, cant do this, cant do that, she already has plans for all her weekends a month in advance.....she doesnt need me anymore is the picture i get.
so im sure there isnt a single person on this site that read all that, but just in case im wrong, what is my problem. was i too nice and she saw the change to take advantage and did, is it just bad luck that this happens over and over again, or is that how everyone works and i just need to get used to it? i find it to be very frustrating/humiliating/irritating and as far as im concerned i will never be nice to a pretty girl again(unless she was an SG of coarse, haha)