Well, July 4th was fun.
That morning my husband, the baby, and our married guy friend went to Rothenberg. Its a quaint, city about an hour and fourty five minutes away. We spent the day taking in the sights, had a nice lunch, and came home late afternoon.
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That morning my husband, the baby, and our married guy friend went to Rothenberg. Its a quaint, city about an hour and fourty five minutes away. We spent the day taking in the sights, had a nice lunch, and came home late afternoon.
On post, they were having a July 4th celebration at the park which I wanted to attend...
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My husband gave me a 3-page letter he wrote while he was at training school and I don't know how I feel about it exactly. He said that I'm being selfish by not being as physically and emotionally supportive as he needs. He speaks about how I haven't initiated a kiss in ages, and physical affection is nearly non-existent from me, and when he gives...
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iamphoto:
Hey baby, I feel for your situation. I don't know why you can't or won't show him affection, however I hope you and the baby are happy. thats all that matters. doesn't it sound a little like he is selfish for wanting more and more. though you should rap your arms around him and give him some love, don't force it. do what makes you feel happy and over time that will make him happy (if he loves you).
delco:
Ok this is what to do, set aside one day every week were the two of you go out on a date. It has to be a real date like you would do when you where single, so get a baby sitter, get dressed up, go a place off base (I know its a pain in the ass to do in Germany) and dont talk about your problems (the baby, your STAR card balance, the war any of it just try to be like two single people out on a date).
If you can make a commitment to do this every week even if its just for an hour or two it will give the two of you something to look forward to.
I know that it sounds stupid and you must be thinking "but I hated dating and was glad I could stop when I got married".
Just try to spend time together away from the all-consuming army base. Give him the chance to treat you like a queen and not a mom and you will become attracted to him all over again.
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If you can make a commitment to do this every week even if its just for an hour or two it will give the two of you something to look forward to.
I know that it sounds stupid and you must be thinking "but I hated dating and was glad I could stop when I got married".
Just try to spend time together away from the all-consuming army base. Give him the chance to treat you like a queen and not a mom and you will become attracted to him all over again.
[Edited on Jul 06, 2005 10:58AM]
Today is perfect! Overcast, lightly raining on and off, with cool, lazy breezes blowing. It reminds me of going fishing with Daddy (minus ocean/fish smell). Just something soothing and homelike about days like this.
I told my husband he should go out this weekend with our married guy friend who is now by himself. I know this guy hasn't been doing much of anything and...
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salomegoddess:
That sounds like the perfect day- I'm glad you took the time to appreciate it.
Well, with my hair- let's see- I wash it about once or twice a week with shampoo- usually anything for "dry, Damaged " hair as it has the most moisturizers in it- but sometimes I use anything cuz its really the conditioners that are important for me. But a good shampoo really does help.
But I condition my hair in the shower every morning and finger comb it- usually I use the new pantene conditioner for natural or relaxed hair (I only comb my hair with a wide tooth comb when I shampoo it)
After I condition/shampoo I put on a heavy moistirizer, gel and like a frizz ease thing.
ALSO, Once a month I either put mayonnaise for a half hour on dry hair b4 I wash, or after I've washed it Ill put a rosemary rinse that I've boiled from fresh or dried rosemay leaves, or a hot oil- either of the three .
WOW- that's a lot! Sorry it took me a while to get back to you but I was really busy this week and I knew I was gonna get very detailed about it- lol- I hope that helps and thank you for the compliment on my hair
On a side note- I think that you really need to do some sexual/relationship exploring- its what your body and mind (not too sure about your heart) is calling out for.
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Well, with my hair- let's see- I wash it about once or twice a week with shampoo- usually anything for "dry, Damaged " hair as it has the most moisturizers in it- but sometimes I use anything cuz its really the conditioners that are important for me. But a good shampoo really does help.
But I condition my hair in the shower every morning and finger comb it- usually I use the new pantene conditioner for natural or relaxed hair (I only comb my hair with a wide tooth comb when I shampoo it)
After I condition/shampoo I put on a heavy moistirizer, gel and like a frizz ease thing.
ALSO, Once a month I either put mayonnaise for a half hour on dry hair b4 I wash, or after I've washed it Ill put a rosemary rinse that I've boiled from fresh or dried rosemay leaves, or a hot oil- either of the three .
WOW- that's a lot! Sorry it took me a while to get back to you but I was really busy this week and I knew I was gonna get very detailed about it- lol- I hope that helps and thank you for the compliment on my hair
On a side note- I think that you really need to do some sexual/relationship exploring- its what your body and mind (not too sure about your heart) is calling out for.
[Edited on Jun 30, 2005 9:48AM]
iamphoto:
I saw your im at 230ap\m when i woke up (what time was that in Germany? hope to get a chance again. 
I was sitting here thinking about the threesome thing and realized that I wouldn't mind if he wanted to have sex with someone else. Is that a bad thing? I mean, without me present, btw. In fact, it'd make me feel better to know that he's getting sexually satisfied fully even if it is by someone else. 
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zenichols:
Hello beautiful I'm sure we can work out some kind of deal to pay off your debt for using my property. 
How about you promise me to take care of that beautiful baby of yours no matter how everything else turns out. And that way there will be one more child in this world that I don't have to worry about and I can be that closer to being at peace.
Please for the sake of all that is sexy in the world go out and have a great time on the 4th. I can't believe you haven't been out clubbing since you've been over there. Germany in renowned for their great club scene from all that I've heard about it. I'm out.
How about you promise me to take care of that beautiful baby of yours no matter how everything else turns out. And that way there will be one more child in this world that I don't have to worry about and I can be that closer to being at peace.
Please for the sake of all that is sexy in the world go out and have a great time on the 4th. I can't believe you haven't been out clubbing since you've been over there. Germany in renowned for their great club scene from all that I've heard about it. I'm out.
missdates:
Hey, I'm TheDarkness's wife... I came across your comment in his journal, and thought I'd offer you my 2 cents . I'm not sure if he e-mailed you the whole story about our thing yet or not.
Anyway, I was the one who opposed. Well, not like the way your hubby did. I always said, I'd probably do it but it'd have to be with a complete stranger. Someone who I wouldn't have to worry about being replaced with. Anyway, yes our experience was a mistake. But not as far as our relationship is concerned. It really was kind of a cool experience, until the bitch went crazy.
In a way, I think it's a good step that your husband is now considering it after all this time. His first response was probably that way because the way he was raised, or his religion, or whatever. It had nothing to do with his own sexual desires, but was a response to something he'd probably thought of as taboo or deviant or what have you. He's probably just coming around to the idea that it is not something that is morally wrong, or something that will threaten your standing in the community.
That's kind of why I didn't want to do it whenever it started coming up. I still don't want people to know what happened. Especially since the bitch is a fucking psycho that it happened with. Anyway, that's a huge ass long ass crazy ass story. If he e-mailed you the entire thing, I'm sure your eyes are tired from reading it!
My $0.02
. I'm not sure if he e-mailed you the whole story about our thing yet or not.
Anyway, I was the one who opposed. Well, not like the way your hubby did. I always said, I'd probably do it but it'd have to be with a complete stranger. Someone who I wouldn't have to worry about being replaced with. Anyway, yes our experience was a mistake. But not as far as our relationship is concerned. It really was kind of a cool experience, until the bitch went crazy.
In a way, I think it's a good step that your husband is now considering it after all this time. His first response was probably that way because the way he was raised, or his religion, or whatever. It had nothing to do with his own sexual desires, but was a response to something he'd probably thought of as taboo or deviant or what have you. He's probably just coming around to the idea that it is not something that is morally wrong, or something that will threaten your standing in the community.
That's kind of why I didn't want to do it whenever it started coming up. I still don't want people to know what happened. Especially since the bitch is a fucking psycho that it happened with. Anyway, that's a huge ass long ass crazy ass story. If he e-mailed you the entire thing, I'm sure your eyes are tired from reading it!
My $0.02
Its ridiculously hot here and air conditioning seems to be a figment of the imagination. 
I'm melting...
So...out of the blue the husband says, "I've been thinking that if we did have a threesome there'd have to be some ground rules."
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I'm melting...
So...out of the blue the husband says, "I've been thinking that if we did have a threesome there'd have to be some ground rules."
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thedarkness:
That is cool, my wife and I had a threesome a while back; now it is coming back to bite us in the ass. One of the worst mistakes we ever did in our life.
ultraman:
i hope this one works for you!
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i hope this one works for you!
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I'm out of green tea!! Its too far (and too hot) to walk to the grocery store with the baby. Ugh. 
Mechanics said it will take 10 days or so for the parts from the States to get here for the car. A guesstimate on parts/labor total is about $430, but of course, I'm sure labor will be alot more intensive than was originally thought...
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Its too far (and too hot) to walk to the grocery store with the baby. Ugh.
Mechanics said it will take 10 days or so for the parts from the States to get here for the car. A guesstimate on parts/labor total is about $430, but of course, I'm sure labor will be alot more intensive than was originally thought...
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darklis:
Nothing wrong with green tea. 
It's too bad you're out of it.
It's too bad you're out of it.
bleeder:
As long as jealousy from him doesnt mix bad with the drinks at the club you should have a blast!
Germany sucks during the summer time does it not?
Germany sucks during the summer time does it not?
Chocolate, chocolate chip and macadamia nut cookies are the devil! But, oh so delicious. 
The mechanics said that they need more time with the car to figure out all that is wrong. Bad sign. So far, the ignition is locked, the electricity is messed up, and something is wrong with the engine. $$$...none of it. So since we only have a few more months here...
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The mechanics said that they need more time with the car to figure out all that is wrong. Bad sign. So far, the ignition is locked, the electricity is messed up, and something is wrong with the engine. $$$...none of it. So since we only have a few more months here...
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krass_of_nod:
Crystal, Bevvy and I all say ty. Crystal says Pookie pie is also very cute. She asked me why I was getting the pics for THIS website. I did not say a word I let her read your compliment
Anyhoo, I hope all your tribulations wind up good for you as for me mine are just starting.
An old friend of mine confessed having strong feelings for me and when her relationship is over wants to be with me. I really like her..I always have we have had this chemstry ever since we met. I kneww she might be mine ine day but neither of us were honest about it then
I guess I do regret it because.....I might love her to. And she came along WAY before Crystal and I did. But I love Crystal to.....I guess only time will be able to work this mess out..
I don't mind being loved in fact that is all I am asking for out of this life. But I won't betray anyone either
thus I am stuck between the rock and the hard place.
Anyhoo, I hope all your tribulations wind up good for you as for me mine are just starting.
An old friend of mine confessed having strong feelings for me and when her relationship is over wants to be with me. I really like her..I always have we have had this chemstry ever since we met. I kneww she might be mine ine day but neither of us were honest about it then
I guess I do regret it because.....I might love her to. And she came along WAY before Crystal and I did. But I love Crystal to.....I guess only time will be able to work this mess out..
I don't mind being loved in fact that is all I am asking for out of this life. But I won't betray anyone either
thus I am stuck between the rock and the hard place.
salomegoddess:
I feel you on what your thinking and saying and though I don't really know your exact predicament- but all I can say is that when your 40 do you wanna think about the things that you should've done or the things that you took a chance on?
Btw- I'm still thinking about applying for SG- Still not too sure yet- but meanwhile I enjoy posting my very amateur pics.
Btw- I'm still thinking about applying for SG- Still not too sure yet- but meanwhile I enjoy posting my very amateur pics.
There was this rank smell in the kitchen and no matter how much cleaning and sniffing around, I did, I couldn't find it. I just couldn't find the origin.
So a couple days pass of me angrily wondering what is smelling in my kitchen. I'm sitting on the couch, able to see into the kitchen and lo and behold, there is something underneath the stove....
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So a couple days pass of me angrily wondering what is smelling in my kitchen. I'm sitting on the couch, able to see into the kitchen and lo and behold, there is something underneath the stove....
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krass_of_nod:
hi there I got some of those pics of Beverly up on the site. She won litl miss Valentine and got a 100$ photo package. I think Pookie Pie could win a contest like this.
About that woman thing. I like being with women better. Mainly because they care and are less about the sex and more about the emotion.
About your car have you gotten it fixxed??
Anyway, just thought I would let you knw about them pics o' beverly.
About that woman thing. I like being with women better. Mainly because they care and are less about the sex and more about the emotion.
About your car have you gotten it fixxed??
Anyway, just thought I would let you knw about them pics o' beverly.
dayva:
Dude, ew. It's a good thing you found the source of the smell. Nothing smells worse than cheese gone bad. What's keeping you from being with a woman? For me, it's my total shyness and fear of losing shokwave. I really dig your profile pic. Your hair is so pretty.
My husband is at training school in a town about 2 hours away. He is allowed free time on the weekends so he called a friend to drive our car and pick him up. Well...our car broke down on the autobahn halfway btwn there and here. Our friend had to call his friend to come pick him up and by the time he got back...
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thedarkness:
Yeah, Murphy's Law is a real bastard sometimes.
How is life treating you?
How is life treating you?
9ine:
...I hate Murphy's Laws...and I deal with them every single day -lol-
You have a fro again!!!
I'll have to watch D.E.B.S....even though I'v never heard about it before
I miss you too darling dearest!! and your last sentence in my journal made me feel warm inside
Regarding deviantArt...I have been a lurker these past few days...I can't find something to submit...but I will as soon as I stop worrying about it
...and regarding Stavroula...if you peek at the "current crush" part in my profile you will probably understand why I find it so hard to ask her 
..but I will..
You have a fro again!!!
I'll have to watch D.E.B.S....even though I'v never heard about it before
I miss you too darling dearest!!
and your last sentence in my journal made me feel warm inside
Regarding deviantArt...I have been a lurker these past few days...I can't find something to submit...but I will as soon as I stop worrying about it
...and regarding Stavroula...if you peek at the "current crush" part in my profile you will probably understand why I find it so hard to ask her
..but I will..
The little teenager at Burger King always blushes and smiles whenever he takes my order. Its so cute and makes this old lady feel like she still has a little something to attract the younguns. 
The good point about the husband being away for the month is that I can catch up on my reading. The house is clean (and stays that way), no worries...
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The good point about the husband being away for the month is that I can catch up on my reading. The house is clean (and stays that way), no worries...
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ultraman:
i couldnt help it...one of my fave fantasies!
krass_of_nod:
First of all, I don't care how old you are, that doesn't matter, you are gorgeous...
Second of all I am one of those hormone ridden book nerds who loves And libraries and librarians.... I get kicked out of Barnes and Noble for being there to late, quite a bit.
My favorite though is old books, i have an unhealthy fascination with all old books.
Any recommends on that note??
I love classics and mythology. I LOVE DANTE ALIGHERI. The Vita Nuova is beautiful, my favorite though is his Divine Comedy. I have the inscription over the gate of hell word for word( with a proper cite) over my door to my room.....
Say hi to pookie poo for me!!! So cute! Beverly is almost a year old now. i have some more pics that i will post in my albums of her if you want to take a look.
First of all, I don't care how old you are, that doesn't matter, you are gorgeous...
Second of all I am one of those hormone ridden book nerds who loves And libraries and librarians.... I get kicked out of Barnes and Noble for being there to late, quite a bit.
My favorite though is old books, i have an unhealthy fascination with all old books.
Any recommends on that note??
I love classics and mythology. I LOVE DANTE ALIGHERI. The Vita Nuova is beautiful, my favorite though is his Divine Comedy. I have the inscription over the gate of hell word for word( with a proper cite) over my door to my room.....
Say hi to pookie poo for me!!! So cute! Beverly is almost a year old now. i have some more pics that i will post in my albums of her if you want to take a look.
Its a green tea day.
And Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends has finally started coming on over here!! Weeeee! I never had an imaginary friend but I guess talking to myself is enough right?
And Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends has finally started coming on over here!!
Weeeee! I never had an imaginary friend but I guess talking to myself is enough right?
thedarkness:
Yum!
9ine:
Hello my sweet friend
I am happy that you liked "A Night In"!! To be honest after I sent it I became afraid that it would be a bit depressing for you at this time..
I never had an imaginary friend either...sometimes I wish I did though
...and I talk to myself all the time...ha ha ha...
I am happy that you liked "A Night In"!! To be honest after I sent it I became afraid that it would be a bit depressing for you at this time..
I never had an imaginary friend either...sometimes I wish I did though
...and I talk to myself all the time...ha ha ha...
My mother called me for information about taxes. Info about student loans and whatnot that she and Daddy had paid off. I had to go into my old account on my university's site to get it and sadly enough it gave me such a...not thrill but good feeling.
I don't know, looking at the numbers, adding this to find the correct amt, figure out how...
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but if it was me I would be realy hert if she didnt talk to me about it first.
I'm all for not putting extra strain on an already strained relationship. But I would try to talk to your husband about it and see if he'd be ok with you having a playmate (or two
By the way, I'm totally jealous