Well, it's been an interesting week. Trying to move as well as have a social life and work full time. This past Tuesday was my birthday and I got to go out, drink and have fun with some friends. One of whom I have been smitten with for quite a while. Unfortunately, I seem to be too shy at this point to make much of a move. My mind tells me to go for it, yet my body won't do it. How frustrating. My biggest issue is analyzing too much. I'm trying so hard to read her, that I can't figure out if I should make a move or not.
Our mutual friend tells me to put myself out there more and be confident about it. But being an introvert definitely has it's negatives in flirting. Your mind will fight your emotions to the death when you are introverted. It's like my heart is screaming, "Hey you, you like her, brush against her, touch her hands, go go go!" and my brain is like "Fuck you heart, don't stop analyzing." This time I am not going to get disappointed, I know I will see her again in the near future. So, I will try to do the opposite next time. Wish me luck!
Our mutual friend tells me to put myself out there more and be confident about it. But being an introvert definitely has it's negatives in flirting. Your mind will fight your emotions to the death when you are introverted. It's like my heart is screaming, "Hey you, you like her, brush against her, touch her hands, go go go!" and my brain is like "Fuck you heart, don't stop analyzing." This time I am not going to get disappointed, I know I will see her again in the near future. So, I will try to do the opposite next time. Wish me luck!
cpkz:
One thing to remember is that... when you're approaching this situation, you are anxious right? That makes YOU hard to read. Now, this isn't me pointing fingers, but saying if you are feeling one way making you hard to read, it is very possible she could also be feeling anxious, making HER hard to read. The only way to figure this out is ask her.