"wow and you're a role model for your kid? Maybe you should think more before you do stupid shit."
You may be asking yourself what the receiver of this message did in order to receive such a harsh message. The truth? I'm not completely sure...ok I have an idea but this message was uncalled for.
About 6 months ago I asked my babies dad to leave. Since then my ex has told me many times that he would work on things. I put everything I had into this relationship and trying to fix it, I have nothing left to give. A little over a month ago I told him I was done trying, I was leaving it up to him. If he wanted anything more with me he would have to step it up and make the moves to fix this. He said he would, but his actions? None.
Two fridays ago I was at my friends birthday party and met a guy. We hit it off and kept in touch over fb. Last week we decided we would both like to see each other again and set a date for him to come over Saturday night. We had a really great night together and we both felt a connection. With out a doubt I want to see him again.
Last night my ex came over like he does most nights. For some reason he went into my bedside dresser drawer....where I had put condoms. The condoms I had bought for Saturday night. He noticed the box was open and demanded to know the truth..including all the details. I wasn't about to lie, what do I have to hide? We aren't together after all.
I realize I hurt him, I knew it would probably hurt him a little to know I was moving on. He is now promising he will change. Can I really believe him? After all he has been saying this for well over a year now. Part of me wants to give him a chance, we do have a son together after all. The other part of me just wants to be happy and move on, can I really trust anything will change?
shit, to be continued...the ex is here.
You may be asking yourself what the receiver of this message did in order to receive such a harsh message. The truth? I'm not completely sure...ok I have an idea but this message was uncalled for.
About 6 months ago I asked my babies dad to leave. Since then my ex has told me many times that he would work on things. I put everything I had into this relationship and trying to fix it, I have nothing left to give. A little over a month ago I told him I was done trying, I was leaving it up to him. If he wanted anything more with me he would have to step it up and make the moves to fix this. He said he would, but his actions? None.
Two fridays ago I was at my friends birthday party and met a guy. We hit it off and kept in touch over fb. Last week we decided we would both like to see each other again and set a date for him to come over Saturday night. We had a really great night together and we both felt a connection. With out a doubt I want to see him again.
Last night my ex came over like he does most nights. For some reason he went into my bedside dresser drawer....where I had put condoms. The condoms I had bought for Saturday night. He noticed the box was open and demanded to know the truth..including all the details. I wasn't about to lie, what do I have to hide? We aren't together after all.
I realize I hurt him, I knew it would probably hurt him a little to know I was moving on. He is now promising he will change. Can I really believe him? After all he has been saying this for well over a year now. Part of me wants to give him a chance, we do have a son together after all. The other part of me just wants to be happy and move on, can I really trust anything will change?
shit, to be continued...the ex is here.