How do you tell a girl "Hey, guess what? I'm not interested, so please stop trying because it's getting embarrassing for you, me, and all our friends?" without causing drama in your social circle?
Oh, and there are two of them that need to hear this message.
Oh, and there are two of them that need to hear this message.
Below is an account of why I feel that way.... Feel free to read or ignore my ranting.
In this age of games and shit, I'd rather someone just tell me the truth. I have been out of the dating game so long... I just got back into it... My ex took my heart and ripped it out.. then dragged it around. Now he's living with some girl and her kid... Anyway!
I went out with a guy. Made out with him. Sent him an email the next day saying thanks.. had a great time. Why? Seemed like we had a great time. But then I was like, "Whoa.. did I just come off being crazy.. because I sent a brief email saying 'thanks for a great time'...."???
Meanwhile.. The guy emails me back.. like 3 days later. And now wants to hang out? WTF? Is this a game? I don't know. Was he really busy like he said? (in the age of iPhones... I mean he couldn't shoot me back a short email.. ..? Really?) Did he see Swingers one too many times? Does he really want to see me again? Or is he just too chicken shit to tell me no...?
Who fucking knows. I don't know what goes on in guy's minds. So that's why I try to date... more than one guy at once. Sometimes. Because. Well. That way I don't worry about just one guy. Because you can see... as above.. I can give myself my own mindfuck if I sit around and just think about someone else's thoughts other than my own without any inkling of what they're thinking. Most girls are pretty good at that.
So the long and short of it?.. Just tell them both. The truth. Because no one likes to get their head fucked. Whether it's by someone else or themselves.
And maybe your hotness is just turning these girls on too much. So tell them. You wanna be friends. Just friends. The end. Honesty is the best policy.