The internet, cyberspace, the wild wild west of technology.
I knew when I went into nude work that things would be said about me. I was completely ok with that, I have always been one to allow others their opinions. I don't mind learning new possibilities from other peoples view points. But being true to my own expressive desires has always been extremely important to me. So despite the negative risks I decided to do nude work and I have never regretted that decision once.
However there are a few things that I think are blatantly obvious about the internet.
#1 Don't believe everything you read on the internet. Especially in regards to the women who choose to be naked on it.
Since I started my modeling career I have seen faux accounts about myself time and time again. When you work for a company as popular as Playboy, every other pornographic site grabs your likeness. Girls get jealous and try to bring you down. I have had countless women blame me for the demise of their relationships. Your called all sorts of horrible things and they try and shame you over something that is beautiful and should be accepted and celebrated.
#2 Women are the meanest to each other. Because they know what to say that really hurts.
Can we stop that? How about right now! I am here to support the other girls that are brave enough to make this kind of art. I would love if you guys would support me also! I love being naked, I work extremely hard for the body I have and I want to celebrate it shamelessly.
#3 If you haven't met someone in person, be careful yet to judge them.
This world is very competitive. There is plenty of he said she said that goes around to bring others down. I try to reserve my judgements of people to when I actually am physically in front of them. The fact is that if you are seeing it on the internet, it might not even be that person speaking.
If anyone out there does witness social media accounts with my likeness that is expressing negativity, feel free to bring it to my attention and I will do my best to get the account deleted. I try not to spend to much of my time chasing after fake accounts because I simply have better things to do. Today a fellow SG commented on my page about a faux account that they believed was harmful and this was my reply. I try to avoid putting to much importance or drama into what is said about me online, I would much rather keep things positive.
All that being said, if you would like to know what my REAL accounts are they are as follows.. Twitter "KyaraTyler" and IG "TheKyaraTyler" I do have a facebook like page but I don't always leave that one up.
How lucky am I? I was inspired to write TWO blogs on this One Monday! :)
Cheers
K.