Well we all sat down last night and talked things out, and i feel a lot better.
They said they weren't trying to cut me out, in fact i could have joined them anytime i wanted, they thought i knew that. Doh!!! what a bunch of homers we were!
Any way we worked out a signal. if the door is open, then all are welcome. if the door is closed, it's a private thing.
We also talked about Erin moving in, and she is! which means we'll need to do some shifting. it's a 3 BR house, but two of the rooms are taken up by me and Buster's excess junk and art stuff. and since we decided that it would work best if we all had a room, we're in for some work.
They said they weren't trying to cut me out, in fact i could have joined them anytime i wanted, they thought i knew that. Doh!!! what a bunch of homers we were!
Any way we worked out a signal. if the door is open, then all are welcome. if the door is closed, it's a private thing.
We also talked about Erin moving in, and she is! which means we'll need to do some shifting. it's a 3 BR house, but two of the rooms are taken up by me and Buster's excess junk and art stuff. and since we decided that it would work best if we all had a room, we're in for some work.

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rickroyal:
I suppose the rest of the face will have to arrive eventually; I can't be a disembodied pair of lips forever.
bean:
Personal space is essential. Good luck. 
