Ever go through a period when your sexual fantasies are really stale?
I mean you can't get beyond the old horny-nineteen-year-old-nymophomanic-college-girl-who-is-nearly-always-blonde-and-shaped-like-a-twiglet-with-four-specifically-placed-spherical-objects-attached-to-it-who-you-bump-into-on-the-bus, or something along those lines. I would call it depressing but it isn't i just feel i have to do something about it, and i used to be SO GOOD at this kind of thing!
Does anyone think that you only get the best fantasies when you have an object of desire?
I'll explain: Non specific sex or casual desire, and its catalysing effect on your fantasies, although fun and like 'renting a movie', can't really compare with the 'going to a film premiere' feel of having a person on your mind all the time, that it seems is infinitely sexier and gives me (at least) a reason to get (it up) in the morning, (not to mention whenever my flatmates aren't looking).
I think i need some advice, or something to get something back into my solo forays into self-discovery...
Any Ideas or viewpoints on this???
I mean you can't get beyond the old horny-nineteen-year-old-nymophomanic-college-girl-who-is-nearly-always-blonde-and-shaped-like-a-twiglet-with-four-specifically-placed-spherical-objects-attached-to-it-who-you-bump-into-on-the-bus, or something along those lines. I would call it depressing but it isn't i just feel i have to do something about it, and i used to be SO GOOD at this kind of thing!
Does anyone think that you only get the best fantasies when you have an object of desire?
I'll explain: Non specific sex or casual desire, and its catalysing effect on your fantasies, although fun and like 'renting a movie', can't really compare with the 'going to a film premiere' feel of having a person on your mind all the time, that it seems is infinitely sexier and gives me (at least) a reason to get (it up) in the morning, (not to mention whenever my flatmates aren't looking).
I think i need some advice, or something to get something back into my solo forays into self-discovery...
Any Ideas or viewpoints on this???
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That said, I've been surprised in the past when seemingly impossible crushes have been requited; the actual event when it does happen can be either amazing or highly disappointing. Quite often the former, usually the latter