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6. the last time I saw my eye doc, I was given a new perscription that was supposed to be only for reading. he told me that my old prescription was so bad he didn't even want my putting my glasses back on. I went back on thursday and now I'm supposed to be wearing these same glasses all the time.
7. oh, the real point and why I wanted to update. wow I'm distractible.

anyway, I've always been a big fan of advocacy. I'm mamma bear, right? it might be that Scottish blood getting confused here on the wrong continent, but if I care about a person, a cause, or an organization, I am the number one supporter of said person, cause, or organization. I've been thinking about this a lot today. honestly, I've been thinking about taking some advice that I gave in a completely unrelated situation.

I do not feel like getting into the gore of the details of what's going on right now because it involves personal and private details that are not mine to share. I guess that's all I can really say. it doesn't involve anyone you know, as far as I know, but I would like to be sure about that.

anyway.

I'm sure you've been in a situation where you have felt the need/ desire to be supportive of someone, for whatever reason. for me, whenever I get that urge, being mamma bear, I will. take. care. of everything. THE PROBLEM (aside from people thinking I'm some kind of smothering psycho) comes when human beings are human beings and continue to do things that get them in situations that continue the cycle of self-insufficiency. and I'm not easily disappointed, either. really.

it's so much easier to forgive someone who is making an effort.

my advice? you can only drive one car at a time.